Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hi everyone! My wedding is in August this year and I have 4 bridesmaids, 3 I already bought gifts for that include: a rae dunn bridesmaid mug, their bridesmaid jewelry, a knotted bracelet and cookies....

Hi all, I'm getting married on the Oregon Coast August 23, 2021. Its a small wedding of 30 people total and I said there would be no kids invited on the invitations and on my website. People started...

I'm trying to think of a way to tell my guests that children are not invited to the wedding, that is not rude but tactful. My children will be there, they are in the ceremony, but the grandparents...

What’s the general rule for who to tip and how much?

I have posted about a wedding I was invited to recently that FH and I will be going to even though it is shaping up to be a disaster. We are going because FH is in it, but after this I don't want to...

If you all come from a blended family, you will probably understand my struggle. I have no idea how to coordinate the family portion of the procession. My sister is my MoH/the officiant for our...

Hi girls. My fiancé & I are getting married next year after 2 years together. This is my first wedding and his second. They had no children and divorced after 2 years when he discovered she was...

Okay so some things have happened at my job recently and it's become clear I need to leave. It has become a really toxic work environment and I can barely get out of bed to go to work anymore. However...

I just added up all my coworkers + spouses and it totals about 21 people, potentially more than half of what weʻre allowed in total so probably not feasible Of everyone, we could whittle it down to...

I'm getting married in a few weeks and we're having a small wedding - 18 guests total, and we each only have a MOH and best man, with no other members in the wedding party. Question is, should we have...

Hey Brides! FH & I feel differently about this, so hoping for some advice. Is it weird to invite parents of a family friend you grew up with, but not the friend you grew up with? Here's the...

Hi, I am having a hard time picking a dress for my bridesmaids. I feel bad asking them to spend 250 on a dress but I feel like they had enough time to save up. I've been engaged since Sept 2020, ask...

I am having a hard time coming up with a good gift to give my bridesmaids. I thought about making a basket filled with things but not sure how much and what to include. Any ideas or suggestions???

Hi All, Do I have to buy the flower girl and the readers a gift? I bought them their dress and I'm on a budget like everyone else, lol What are your thoughts?

I’ve recently been stressing hardcore about my wedding Invites. I sent them out almost 2 weeks ago (it’ll be 2 weeks ago this Friday)... my neighbor works for the post office and said she saw them get...

Etiquette question: Should we still invite guests who we no longer talk to? We sent out save the dates a year and a half ago, so it will be almost two years by the time of the wedding. Some of the...

Hey all! I am getting married September of 2022 (I got quite the early start on planning!) and am having trouble navigating the guest list. I have a HUGE family on my mom's side, I am talking 100+...

Do RSVPs tend to come back closer to the deadline? I'm the type of person who responds the day I get the invitation, haha! Our Save the Dates went out in November and invitations went out last Monday....

My FH's cousin has sent a STD, wedding shower invite and now the formal invitation, but has only included him on the invite and explicitly written _/1 in attendance. We were both kind of surprised and...

We never got a real wedding, just a Justice of the Peace between Army postings with only his mother to witness. We're planning our renewal as the big one. We want to use our son(12 at the time of the...