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Hi everyone! My FH has two last names because he is latino. I was wondering if anyone has married a latino and what they did to their last name? did you keep your maiden name and add his paternal...

So my wedding is in 12 days and I finally get my dress back from the seamstress (one of my mothers friends) and the bustle still isn’t right and will not hold the train off of the floor at all. I am...

Hi guys , So I am less than a month away from my wedding . My wedding isn’t completely traditional Everyone is invited to the ceremony and I will serve drinks and my wedding cake in the back afterward...

I know I may not be the only client that my caterer is working with but I was told that when I officially book with my venue to shoot them an email to set up a taste testing. I sent them a booking...

My best friend got engaged about a year or so ago. She has plans to get married in one month and of course, I was asked to be a bridesmaid about 7 months ago. Not long after, I too got engaged. My...

Has anyone else had their significant other's family HATE them for the first couple years? Mine were absolutely AWFUL for the first 2 years of our relationship and even now 4 years later we are still...

We are doing a handfasting ceremony but I am not sure where or what to use for the cords. We are changing it up a bit and having our parents each pick a color and read the blessing associated with the...

I am annoyed. Livid, actually. So, I have four bridesmaids. When I offered them the role of bridesmaids, we had a cute little party out of it but I also typed out a contract for them to sign. Nothing...

I know I know people probably think we are crazy but kind of an opportunity we couldn't pass up. We are rescuing/adopting a 5.5 month pitty mix next week Basically we weighed the pros and cons and...

How can you stop or delete the spam posts to your wall from site administrators? It’s annoying to get on here and see all the random spam posts about stupid polls that they put on my wall and I would...

Is anyone planning a weekday wedding? A venue we are looking at charges much less if we do a Thursday evening, and we could provide our guests so many more things by saving on the rental costs. Do you...

Hey All! We’re getting married in Loudoun County and our friend is performing the secular ceremony for us on our wedding day but we know that Virginia doesn’t accept online ordinations so that doesn’t...

After a man gets engaged, does he wear his ring immediately like the woman? Or does he wait until the actual wedding?

If you’re changing your last name to match that of your partner’s, are you keeping your middle name or maiden name? I can’t decide. Meaning: First Middle NewLastName or First Maiden NewLastName

I’m curious on what others personal opinions are on matching tattoos with your hubby/wife. Personally, my fiancé and me currently have one matching tattoo together. A heart (mine) and an arrow (his)...

My fiancé proposed to me on our two year anniversary, which was 9/30/18. We set the wedding date to be 9/30/20 just for the sake of keeping the date. This is a Wednesday, which means it makes a lot of...

I asked a friend of mine if she would like to be one of my bridesmaids, we have been “friends” for over 15yrs but here recently she and I are not close at all. The last time we hung out she said we...

Ladies! I have a question for you especially if you have a lace wedding dress. How much did you pay for alterations ?