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Hey y'all! I was just wondering if anyone had some advice for a REALISTIC Chicago area wedding in the northwest/western suburbs. My mother seems to have the idea that we can get married for the same...

Hi everyone! I asked a cousin to be a bridesmaid in my wedding. She viewed the message, but has not responded. Would it be wrong if I take that as a no and move on?

Hey ladies! I just want some opinions. Would you go to a reception only (next year) if you weren't invited to the ceremony (in June) because of this virus?! FH doesn't think people would come. I just...

Hello everyone!!! I hope you're safe and well. My fiancé and I just postponed our May 15th 2020 wedding and my bridal shower and bachelorette party were also recently cancelled (4/18/2020). We're...

Did you guys serve your bridal party food during the morning/afternoon while getting ready? If you did, what did you serve them?

How do you feel about another culture wearing your cultural wedding dress? I feel it’s only appropriate if you’re in that country (when in Rome, do as Romans do) or marrying into that culture. For...

This is an odd insecurity....I have been engaged for a few months now and find myself sometimes insecure because my ring is pretty big and sparkly...I know that’s not a bad problem to have, but I...

My fiance and I had decided on doing a cookout for our wedding reception but his coworkers have him convinced that it is trashy and redneck to have a cookout. (We're doing it at a state park in...

My fiancé and I are coming to a disagreement. We are keeping our wedding under $10k, we’re having around 75-100 guests, with an open bar. My fiancé doesn’t want to spent $600 on a DJ and...

Hi, I would like to know which one you prefer... if open bar or cash bar? so far I haven’t had to go to a wedding where I have to pay for my drink, I don’t know how common it is because I’m not...

I was wondering if there were any couples out there with struggling to come to a compromise about details related to the wedding? My partner and I continue to have difficulty agreeing on two things,...

So we just got approved for a house but closing will be in May 2020 and we had set a date for our wedding August 2020. We are paying for our wedding and at this point we can't make big purchases til...

Has anyone gotten married at the courthouse and then had a reception? I'm just really stressed out about the whole thing and it's taking a toll on my anxiety. 😔

We’ve delayed on sending our save the dates for a few reasons and we’re 3 months out and want to send them this weekend! Why did I do this to myself lol?! Why didn’t we enter addresses into a label...