Activity for VICTORIA

Hi all! To start : we aren't allowing +1's unless guests are married or engaged by the time our Save the Dates went out. Everyone is aware and fine with it. We had to do this because FH wanted kids in attendance (lots of nieces and nephews), so...

I feel like this may be a dumb question, BUT here we go anyway. Cake serving sets- necessary or no? Worth the extra expense? FH doesn't think it's worth it and thinks it's a waste of money. He doesn't think we'll ever use it again. My sister says we...

Hi guys! This is a really long-ish story, I'm sorry. But I could really use some advice or suggestions. I'm considering demoting my MOH and asking another BM to step up. I asked one of my good friends ("A") to be my MOH. The main reason for this was...

Hi all! So, as with many others, FH and I have had to postpone our wedding. While NY has been opening, the guidelines would not allow us the wedding we planned. So we postponed to June 2021. That being said: we are STILL getting married on our...

Hi guys! FH and I have postponed our 10/25/20 wedding until next Summer 😭 However, we're still getting civilly married on our original day (big celebration will be next year). We will only have our parents, FHs grandparents, siblings, and my...

Okay...so FH and I have made the decision to postpone the wedding celebration. We ARE having a small ceremony to marry on our original date because it was important to me. But, the bigger ceremony/reception will be next Summer. Anyway- I was thinking...

Has anyone looked into, or been to on of, the Sandals Resorts? FH and I are considering honeymooning at one next Summer. Wantes to hear some input from anyone who's been. Pros/Cons/Likes/Dislikes. We're between St Lucia and Barbados right now! Any...

Hey guys. I'm in NY and right now we can only have groups of 50 total. I'm hopeful, as is my venue, that come end of October this will be increased (PLEASE SEND ALL THE POSITIVE VIBES MY WAY!). Our total, including if ALL guests came, us, and vendors...

Alright, ladies. I know this is something that MANY of my fellow brides have had to deal with. I'm not sure if it'll come to this for me, yet, but I want to give myself time to come to terms with it just in case. Our wedding is set for 10/25/2020....

Hey guys. We're a Capital District couple getting married 10/25/2020. Our venue is a private Country Club. I have emailed them about the plan- if we're moving forward as scheduled or....? I haven't heard back yet. However, I've heard a few different...

Alright guys, I have struggled my entire life with my weight. Basically, I have an underactive thyroid...but not so bad that the doctors feel I should be diagnosed with hypothryoidism and put on meds. My alterations are at the end of August. With all...

Hey girls! I had a quick question regarding the night before the wedding! Eek! FH and I already know we will NOT be spending the night together. I reserved rooms at two different hotels. I'll be booking our "honeymoon suite" at Hotel A (unless I find...

Hi all! We're doing a co-ed wedding shower, versus the traditional bridal shower. Mostly because I am not a fan of being the center of attention and don't want to do it alone- I'm gonna make FH suffer with me (jk, of course, it'll be fun). Anyway. I...

Just looking for some honeymoon ideas! We'll have 7, possibly 10, days for a honeymoon in Summer 2020. We do NOT want to honeymoon in Mexico, we just think a lot of people do that. We did find a sloth sanctuary in Costa Rica (I love sloths), through...

Hey everyone. So, I have a bridal party of 3 and also a flower girl. Need some input on hair/make-up and who pays given the specific circumstances within the party. MOH - best friend for the last 6 years, like a sister BM 1 - best friend since first...