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Semi formal or dress casual?
Rebecca in Wedding Reception, on June 21, 2021 at 10:14 AM

My husband and I got married a year ago and are finally having a reception/celebration in September. It will be at a restaurant (I would consider it upscale) in their private event room with 70-80...

SLY, Jun 21, 2021 5 1,781
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Second Postponement-still Feeling Uneasy
Rebecca in Planning, on April 18, 2021 at 10:35 PM

My husband and I got married in a small ceremony last summer during the lockdown. Marrying him was one of the best things I’ve done, but the day was awful. We’d planned to postpone the big celebration...

Lynnie, Apr 20, 2021 3 455
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Plus ones for every single single guest?
Rebecca in Etiquette and Advice, on March 3, 2020 at 7:29 AM

My mom called me yesterday absolutely furious because she’d gone onto our wedding website and randomly started putting different guest names in as if she were RSVP’ing and discovered that every single...

Tina, Feb 16, 2021 104 2,824 2
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Car Title/registration Chage
Rebecca in Married Life, on September 4, 2020 at 10:35 AM

Hello ladies! I’ve been working through the name change process and have managed to get my SS card updated, my driver’s license updated, and my bank accounts updated. My car is under my maiden name on...

MIWM, Sep 7, 2020 7 207
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To solder or not to solder...
Rebecca in Married Life, on June 29, 2020 at 11:06 PM

I am trying to decide whether I should get my engagement ring and wedding band soldered together! My initial gut feeling is that I DON’T want them soldered together, but the way the band fits with the...

MOB So Cal, Jul 6, 2020 17 308
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Another “we Got Married Anyway!” Post!
Rebecca in Married Life, on June 26, 2020 at 3:06 PM

Making decisions with all of the uncertainty in the world isn’t easy, but saying “I do!” was! We made the decision in March, shortly after the lockdowns started, to postpone our June 19 wedding to...

Rebecca, Jun 27, 2020 12 275 1
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People sending flowers
Rebecca in Etiquette and Advice, on June 22, 2020 at 3:54 PM

Ok, this is a weird one. We got married in a super small (10 person) ceremony on Friday. It was a lovely day and I’m so glad we did! My husband’s family decided last minute to fly out from California...

Rebecca, Jun 22, 2020 6 205
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Buying a House While Wedding Planning
Rebecca in Planning, on February 9, 2020 at 11:46 AM

Has anyone bought a house while planning their wedding? We’re currently in a townhouse and had originally planned on starting to look for a house after our June wedding. We had touched base with our...

Chelsea, Feb 10, 2020 11 173 1
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Suit vs. Tuxedo
Rebecca in Wedding Attire, on December 30, 2019 at 5:02 PM

My FH and I have been discussing what he’ll be wearing for the wedding and are currently leaning g towards a suit. We want him to wear light gray (June wedding) and he definitely wants a vest so he...

Katie, Dec 30, 2019 7 134 1
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Tastings
Rebecca in Planning, on November 11, 2019 at 10:42 PM

How far ahead is everyone doing their tastings? My venue is all-inclusive and says that we should be doing our tasting in March for our June wedding. I can’t help but feel this is cutting it kind of...

Elle, Dec 15, 2019 24 343
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Wedding Websites and Save the Dates
Rebecca in Planning, on November 23, 2019 at 4:17 PM

I ordered my STDs last week and realized that I forgot to put our wedding website on them. I’m trying to decide if I should put a small piece of card stock with the website printed on it in the...

MrsD, Nov 25, 2019 7 114
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Not Inviting to Shower due to “not Liking?”
Rebecca in Etiquette and Advice, on November 20, 2019 at 9:32 PM

My mother is hosting our shower in March (I’m so incredibly grateful for her doing it!), and she double checked the potential guest list with me to make sure she wasn’t leaving anyone out. After...

Jennifer, Nov 21, 2019 7 299
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Fun Save the Dates?
Rebecca in Planning, on November 3, 2019 at 3:57 PM

Is anybody doing “fun” save the dates? I found a bottle of doggy champagne (bacon flavored 🥓), so I couldn’t resist incorporating our hairy toddler!

Clíodhna, Nov 5, 2019 23 369
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Family Coming In Early Before or Staying After the Wedding?
Rebecca in Family and Relationships, on October 20, 2019 at 7:55 PM

My future FIL is in town for business and asked us if we thought we wanted everybody (FH’s parents, sisters, both sets of grandparents) to spend extra time before or after the wedding to “visit.”...

Melle, Oct 21, 2019 9 437
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Engagement Ring to be “worn with Extreme Caution?”
Rebecca in Wedding Attire, on October 2, 2019 at 8:20 PM

My FH got my E-ring from Allurez. Within a month it had two missing stones and we had to send it back and fight them to fix it. We got it back after two months and within four days, it was missing...

Futuremrsm, Oct 4, 2019 15 433
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Amazon Registry?
Rebecca in Registry, on September 9, 2019 at 9:42 PM

My FH is all for an Amazon registry. I would potentially be OK with it, but knowing most of my family who would be coming to the shower, I feel like it would be an absolute disaster because they would...

Cuoghi, Sep 16, 2019 17 299
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Ring Dilemna
Rebecca in Wedding Attire, on August 6, 2019 at 4:20 PM

I posted yesterday about having a missing stone in my ring. I emailed the online jeweler my fiancé got it from and they’ll replace it “for free” and we only have to pay for the stone-a whopping...

Cher Horowitz, Aug 6, 2019 8 300
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Lost Stone/ring Insurance?
Rebecca in Wedding Attire, on August 5, 2019 at 1:26 PM

I looked down at my ring this morning to discover one of the side stones (aquamarine) was missing. Definitely not a good start to the day 🙄. I searched the entire house with no luck (I know it was...

Rebecca, Aug 5, 2019 6 206
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Using Mom/grandma’s Dress/veil?
Rebecca in Wedding Attire, on August 2, 2019 at 10:10 PM

Is anybody incorporating their Mom’s or Grandma’s dress or veil in their wedding? I’m planning on trying to use my mom’s veil and my cousin had her mom’s dress made into a short dress for her...

Rebecca, Aug 4, 2019 12 162
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Picking an Officiant
Rebecca in Family and Relationships, on August 1, 2019 at 8:24 PM

This is somewhat of a long story, but the short version is that we were originally planning on asking my aunt to be our officiant. We used to be very close, but recently I’ve found this isn’t as much...

Cher Horowitz, Aug 2, 2019 5 100
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