Discussions I've participated in

My husband and I got married a year ago and are finally having a reception/celebration in September. It will be at a restaurant (I would consider it upscale) in their private event room with 70-80...

My husband and I got married in a small ceremony last summer during the lockdown. Marrying him was one of the best things I’ve done, but the day was awful. We’d planned to postpone the big celebration...

We postponed from 05/08/20 to 01/29/21. We had already mailed out invites and started receiving RSVPs before COVID happened and then well.... y’all know the rest. The moment we had decided we needed...

Hello ladies! I’ve been working through the name change process and have managed to get my SS card updated, my driver’s license updated, and my bank accounts updated. My car is under my maiden name on...

Anyone not done or doing an engagement photo session? We've been engaged since May 2020....and I'm thinking about skipping it.

Covid Brides!!! How did y’all go about getting your name changed on your SS card/ drivers license with everything closed down?

Have any of you taken the cash option if your parents offered a wedding reception or cash for a new home? How did your parents handle it? Do you regret it? Thanks! A wondering Mother of the Bride

Just wondering- do you guys split everything 50/50? Paypal / Venmo each other? Do you base it on income?do you guys have joint account etc? How do you guys handle each other’s debt? Just wondering ...

Which would you prefer, in addition to having the option to attend in person? A. Having the option to attend a wedding via Facebook liveB. Having the option to attend a wedding via zoomD. Having the...

Hey everyone! So I’m planning my wedding for November and I really wanted to do bouquets and possibly an alternative to them just because I like something different. I also considered not doing a...

We were supposed to go on a cruise on a brand new ship in January 2021 for our honeymoon. The cruise line just informed us that the ship is delayed and the cruise is cancelled. FH is now planning a...

Where are you in your planning? I started off really early with my planning and now I'm sitting idle but I don't think I should be. I have my venue (ceremony and reception is the same), my caterer, my...

Whos is having a micro-wedding this year and having their big celebration next year? Who is coming to the small wedding? What is your plans? Are you hosting it on zoom for other guest? Share your...

We're schedules for 10.30.20 and are looking and basically begging to reschedule our weddi g for 2021. Has anyone else had "issues" with their venue not accommodating? We were told we have to wait 8...

That’s it. We officially postponed, which added 370 days to our 100 day count down. I’m sad, but it’s for the better. Hopefully 2021 will be a little nicer to us. What issues are y’all running into...

Has anyone ordered either the engagement ring or wedding band (yours or FH) from one of those websites like modern gents? They have really pretty rings for very good prices. I am not the kind of...

Is anybody not postponing their reception and just deciding to completely cancel it? I really want the reception to happen, but also don't know when this will all be over and don't want to play the...

When at a bridal shower, there's always games with prizes. Usually there's candles/lotions/etc. What do you WANT the prizes to be? Was thinking of adding some good smelling hand sanitizers (#COVID)...

Everyone put your engagement dates 🥰🥰

Do you wish you’d postponed until you could have the full wedding and reception? Did everything work out for the best? I keep thinking a mid-December wedding in Missouri will be ok, then I read the...