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Wedding Regrets?
OldSchoolKindaLove in Married Life, on January 31, 2019 at 11:27 AM

So, here it is almost 4 months after my wedding and I regret everything about my wedding except the groom ( my now husband) of course. I regret every little detail from the venue, all the way down to...

Emily, Jan 23, 2024 28 2,757 1
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Marriage Counseling
OldSchoolKindaLove in Married Life, on July 16, 2019 at 3:51 PM

We got married almost 9 months ago, and it's been less than ideal for the both of us. I started feeling a disconnect between my husband and myself back in March, and asked him to consider counseling,...

talhaub, Jul 8, 2023 18 673 1
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3Rd Anniversary Gift
OldSchoolKindaLove in Married Life, on April 22, 2021 at 12:20 PM

I am asking for help, our 3rd Wedding Anniversary is coming up and I really want to gift my husband a nice personalized real leather belt. However, I want it also be engraved with ducks, because he is...

Lynnie, Apr 23, 2021 4 215
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Anniversary Trip - Florida Keys
OldSchoolKindaLove in Married Life, on July 24, 2020 at 5:15 PM

DH and I have decided to take a trip for our anniversary this year. We have decided to look at the Florida Keys as neither of us have been there before. Does anyone have any advice on places to stay,...

Meghan, Jul 25, 2020 5 125
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covid Anniversary Trip
OldSchoolKindaLove in Married Life, on July 16, 2020 at 12:17 PM

I know this is crazy, but my husband and I want to celebrate our 2nd Anniversary by going on a trip because we didn't celebrate our first anniversary. We have decided to take a full week this year for...

OldSchoolKindaLove, Jul 22, 2020 10 164
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Failing Marriage Warning Signs
OldSchoolKindaLove in Family and Relationships, on May 20, 2020 at 5:50 PM

For those who have been married and divorced, or those who have been married on the brink of divorce. I need some help. 1.)What were the warning signs that your marriage was failing? 2.) What steps...

Katharine, May 21, 2020 5 421
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No longer insterested in Sex....is this normal?
OldSchoolKindaLove in Married Life, on May 13, 2020 at 10:15 AM

I recently turned 30, and there is no doubt that my body has changed. Since turning 30, perhaps starting about 6 months prior I noticed that I have no sex drive at all. I mean I have sex because my...

OldSchoolKindaLove, May 14, 2020 26 613
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Dreams about exes after marriage
OldSchoolKindaLove in Married Life, on April 7, 2020 at 9:21 AM

So, as awkward as this is I felt like I could turn here to help ease my mind. In the last 2 months, I find myself having dreams about two very specific exes, one being my first love and the other...

Bianca, Apr 8, 2020 15 701
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Sister Drama
OldSchoolKindaLove in Family and Relationships, on March 6, 2020 at 11:06 AM

This post isn't necessarily wedding related, but I didn't know where else to turn. My husband and I recently purchased our first home. We have been diligently working on updating, unpacking, and all...

Pam, Mar 7, 2020 8 226
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Life Altering Decisions..... (health related)
OldSchoolKindaLove in Married Life, on March 3, 2020 at 5:40 PM

Some have followed my posts, others have not. For those who have not, my husband and I had a very rough first year of marriage which almost ended in divorce. Through faith, counseling, and the Grace...

OldSchoolKindaLove, Mar 4, 2020 5 312
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Dating Anniversary vs. Wedding Anniversary
OldSchoolKindaLove in Married Life, on February 20, 2020 at 5:42 PM

Is it good, bad, or indifferent whether a couple celebrates their dating anniversary instead of their wedding anniversary? I just wondered what your thoughts are.

Tammy, Mar 2, 2020 27 4,329
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Avoiding Wedding Regrets
OldSchoolKindaLove in Planning, on February 28, 2020 at 10:14 AM

Best advice I have for this is, don't let others influence how you and your future spouse plan your wedding. This day is 100% about you and your spouse! If someone is causing you extreme grief during...

Jennifer, Feb 28, 2020 7 185
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2Nd Anniversary Photo Session
OldSchoolKindaLove in Married Life, on February 26, 2020 at 5:10 PM

Has anyone done a 2nd Anniversary Photo Session? I think most couples do this for their First Anniversary, but due to circumstances we didn't "celebrate" a 1st Anniversary. I thought about doing a...

OldSchoolKindaLove, Feb 26, 2020 4 96 1
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Photo Session vs. Vow Renewal?
OldSchoolKindaLove in Married Life, on February 5, 2020 at 1:52 PM

Decisions, Decisions....Let me start off by saying that my husband and I are both unsatisfied with how our wedding day turned out. In fact we often choose not to talk about it, because we both end up...

OldSchoolKindaLove, Feb 24, 2020 10 211
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When you settle into marriage...
OldSchoolKindaLove in Married Life, on February 18, 2020 at 2:56 PM

Every day life gets in the way sometimes! Between work, household chores, children, etc, we all get sidetracked. However, I found a website which has ideas for dates, special occasions, holidays,...

Alys, Feb 19, 2020 6 199 3
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Romance
OldSchoolKindaLove in Married Life, on January 24, 2020 at 4:46 PM

I'm a hopeless romantic. Grew up on Disney movies, Nicholas Spark Novels, etc. Now we all know none of those things happen and Prince Charming isn't a real Prince. However, I find myself craving some...

OldSchoolKindaLove, Feb 3, 2020 10 233 1
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Boudoir Photos
OldSchoolKindaLove in Married Life, on January 21, 2020 at 3:44 PM

I am turning 30 in less than a month and wanted a way to boost my self-esteem and maybe increase the intimacy in my marriage. After a rough first year, purchasing our home, and moving things have been...

OldSchoolKindaLove, Jan 24, 2020 14 286 1
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House-warming Party
OldSchoolKindaLove in Married Life, on January 16, 2020 at 12:32 PM

Hey ladies! We just bought our dream home in November! Super exciting, and nerve wrecking. My mother has graciously offered to plan us a house warming party. However, we have only been married for...

Jennifer, Jan 21, 2020 12 170
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2Nd year of marriage > 1 year
OldSchoolKindaLove in Married Life, on January 14, 2020 at 5:59 PM

Our 2nd year of marriage is off to a much better start! We have even bought our dream home! Despite the moving process being tiring (since it's the 3rd move in a year) it's all going well! To everyone...

OldSchoolKindaLove, Jan 15, 2020 6 194
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Still have wedding regrets a year later
OldSchoolKindaLove in Married Life, on October 24, 2019 at 9:11 AM

So, I know this is crazy, but I still have this feeling of, "We didn't have our wedding". Even after a year, I don't feel like we had our wedding, we a had a wedding, but not ours. I expected little...

Emily, Oct 26, 2019 16 1,267 2
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