Discussions by isabel1115

Ok we know guests are not obligated to give a gift but most believe its customary and do. It seems like from what I read, everyone has those couple or many guests who did not gift or card. I feel...

It's been a rough couple of weeks watching people who previously said they were coming flake on the wedding. We had polled the family in advance on who would be able to come when and now, people who...

Our wedding came and went and we had a great time. We're happily married. Woo hoo! We do have a small situation though: there's about a handful of people we have not received gifts from. I was a...

I know I've mentioned before I had a bad feeling about our florist after i posted on here. I tried to get over it but ever since then, it's been disorganization issue after another. 1. I constantly...

So we definitely want to do parent dances but don't want it to be too complicated. Neither of our dads/moms live near us so we don't have a lot of time to practice. My dad and I will only have 3 days...

We are doing 2 different mismatched centerpieces: 1. Gold candlelabras with 5 tealight candles in clear cups. Below them will be mirrored rounds, small arrangements of flowers and tealights in gold...

My future niece-in-law is going to be 3 months old by the time of the wedding. She is not coming to the wedding but they are going to bring her for some family photos. My FSIL said the baby already...

So I know I posted here before about the bachelorette and if I should see if my friends will/want to plan anything. So in the end, 3 of them offered to help and 2 of them were sending out emails and...

So we are not snail mail people at all. We and our friends and family are all pretty tech-focused and barely look at mailbox. Some of our friends send all their wedding correspondence via email. We...

As many do, we are having issues with kids and exceptions on our guest list and could use some advice. I'll preface by saying this is just an invitation to the reception. (The ceremony is an elopement...

I'm trying to determine how many boutonnieres and corsages we need. We aren't having a wedding party so right now we have them for all the parents, of course. We don't have any grandparents attending....

Help! Our floral journey has been painful. We have a very small budget for flowers and live in an expensive area so we had to eliminate a lot of florists based on costs. After a very difficult...

I know the general etiquette is to send someone an invitation even if they said they probably can't come on the Save the Date. However, some people have already RSVPed no on our website or told us...

I could use some decor advice! Our wedding style is glamorous, metallic, and elegant. It'll be in a hotel with a similar look. The hotel itself has a lot of gold, grey, glass, mirrors, mirrored...

I am having a bachelorette party dilemma: I am not having bridesmaids. I wanted people to help if they wanted and not help if they didn't. All my girlfriends are asking me what the bachelorette party...

So I have a friend whom until last year, we used to hang out with regularly. I told her and her partner we were engaged before we were social media public. I ran into her recently and realized...wow...

For those who are password protecting their wedding websites, where on the invitation did you put your password? I've heard not to put the website on the invitation but rather an enclosure. I wanted...

I saw somenoe else who mentioned its best to send thank you notes as soon as you receive a gift. We received one right after we got engaged and truthfully, it didn't occur to me to send a thank you...

Hi everyone. My FH and I are thinking about doing a morning after breakfast and looking at options. For the wedding, we are expecting 110-120ish guests with 70-80 coming from out of town. Of these...

Anyone else who didn't have bridesmaids: I am wondering: did you do everything yourselves or delegate tasks in other ways? I chose not to have bridesmaids mostly to avoid drama, not have to choose...