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If you’re recently engaged, you might be feeling anxious to start planning your wedding—and wondering how to choose wedding vendors during this time of coronavirus, we’re here to help. While in-person meetings and events such as wedding expos are out for the time being, there are other ways to browse, virtually connect with, and even book pros to build your vendor team. And, given that events aren’t occurring right now due to social distancing mandates, wedding vendors will definitely appreciate your business, even if it’s for a time in the future. 

If you’re trying to figure out how to choose wedding vendors without meeting in-person, here’s a step-by-step guide. 

Ask your recently-married pals for recommendations. 

Your friends and family members who recently planned a wedding are invaluable resources when it comes to choosing your vendors. If you loved a particular aspect of a wedding you attended (delicious food, gorgeous flowers, a show-stopping cake, etc.), don’t be afraid to ask the couple to recommend their vendors. The newlyweds will likely be flattered, and vendors will certainly appreciate the referral.  

Read online reviews.

Checking out online reviews on a site like WeddingWire is another good way to narrow down the list of wedding vendors in your area. Yes, star ratings are a useful quick reference, but be sure to actually read the reviews, as well. Look for specific stories about how wedding vendors went above and beyond the call of duty, and make sure positive reviews were written recently. Remember, too, that a bad review isn’t necessarily a deal breaker—if it’s one bad review in a sea of positives, look at the bigger picture, and be sure to check out if and how the vendor responded to a negative review.  

Take 360-degree venue tours.

Choosing a venue when you can’t actually visit the site can be tricky. However, on sites like WeddingWire, you can take a 360-degree tour of a wedding venue, which is almost as good as paying an in-person visit. You can check out both indoor and outdoor spaces, and view rooms from different perspectives. If you’re particularly interested in a certain venue, you may be able to speak to a representative and have him or her “walk” you through the virtual tour to share details about the space and answer any questions. 

Don’t focus too much on communication right now. 

Yes, a wedding vendor should get back to you in a timely fashion. However, many wedding vendors are dealing with a lot right now—couples who may be postponing their own events, not to mention dealing with children who may be home from school or other family issues. A friendly and prompt response is certainly ideal, but a bit more patience may be required during this time. 

Schedule virtual interviews. 

While we usually recommend meeting potential vendors in person before booking, times have certainly changed, and we are wholeheartedly in favor of the virtual interview. These interviews should be taken seriously—try to find a time when you and your partner will both be available to meet, and pretend you’re meeting in person (no PJs or loud TV in the background!). Come prepared with a list of questions applicable to the type of vendor you’re speaking with. Though it may be a bit more difficult to get a sense of a vendor’s personality through a computer or phone, it’s still possible—if your instinct tells you that a vendor is a good fit, and his or her reviews check out, you’re probably right.  

Ask for photos and videos. 

For wedding vendors who will be creating a tangible product for your wedding—cake bakers, florists, stationers, hair stylists, makeup artists, photographers, and more—don’t be shy about asking for recent photos of their work. You can also ask pros like videographers, bands, and ceremony musicians for videos that showcase their skills. While many in-person meetings like tastings and trials won’t happen for a while, it doesn’t have to deter you from hiring a vendor based on photos, interviews, and reviews.

Read contracts carefully. 

If you’ve found a vendor you love, be sure to read over his or her contract closely. Don’t understand some of the language in the document? Ask! Given the current circumstances, be sure to ask about the vendor’s postponement policy. And what happens if the vendor has an emergency and can’t perform services for your wedding? Once you’ve accounted for all the what-ifs, you can sign on the dotted line and add another vendor to your team.