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Save the Date Postcards - Addressing
Jeannine, on December 11, 2014 at 10:04 AM

Hello All!!! I am new to this forum but had a question on addressing my Save The Dates. My Fiance and I just got our save the dates and we are debating about creating labels or handwriting the...

Kaitlin, Dec 13, 2014 14 504
bridalfever
The generic thank you card
bridalfever, on December 10, 2014 at 10:13 PM

Got a generic photo thank you card in the mail from a wedding attended in September. It said "Thank You!" No "dear so and so." No personal note, no thank you for the small fortune you gifted us. Is...

Alicia, Dec 11, 2014 45 2,989
Laura
Do you ever feel guilty when receiving wedding gifts?
Laura, on December 10, 2014 at 7:50 PM

My parents bought FH something that had been on the registry for Christmas, so I went online to remove it. I had seen during the weekend that 10 gifts had been purchased, which I thought was so...

Cheri, Dec 10, 2014 12 792
Sherry
Hotel block rate on our wedding website?
Sherry, on December 9, 2014 at 5:16 PM

Do we put the room rates for the reserved hotel block on our website or let them call the hotel to get it? There is a standard and suite rate.

Emma, Dec 10, 2014 18 1,603
Pancakes
How to Include Charity in Wedding?
Pancakes, on December 9, 2014 at 8:37 AM

Our local animal shelter is VERY important to me. Even before we adopted our cutie this April, but more especially afterwards. We both love our Pibb SO much and he's such a great dog. We are grateful...

Zoe, Dec 9, 2014 51 2,702
Maltese
Its been awhile....lets see some dress porn!
Maltese, on December 3, 2014 at 2:38 PM

There are lots of newbies on the sight and this hasn't come up in awhile!!! I found my dress the first time out and was the 6th or 7th dress I tried on! I will be changing the button back to a corset...

Tru Lowes, Dec 9, 2014 138 327
Leesha
Changing Wedding Date?!? RANT*
Leesha, on December 8, 2014 at 12:32 PM

Sorry for all the rants i have haha Have you had to change your wedding date? We wanted to get married August 2014 but family said to do it in 2015 so more family could attend. So FH and I said Fine,...

Tracy, Dec 9, 2014 38 326
Hannah
Bridesmaid Gifts-Not Sure How Much Is Enough?
Hannah, on December 7, 2014 at 8:37 PM

So, I've come to a mini dilemma. I have to decide what to get my bridesmaids as a gift. Online surveys say between 75 and 150, but that's way out of my budget, considering I have 9, yes you read that...

Lisa, Dec 8, 2014 40 1,919
Andrea
Destination wedding Bridesmaid gifts
Andrea, on December 8, 2014 at 12:23 AM

I haven't the slightest idea what to get my girls. I want to get them jewelry that is nice and that they will wear again. I have been looking on etsy but everyone has such different styles that it's...

Northern MN, Dec 8, 2014 6 210 1
Amy & Dan
Multiple wedding registries?
Amy & Dan, on December 6, 2014 at 4:51 AM

Does anyone have more than one registry? How many is too many? I was thinking of having a couple just so there is variety among pricing and stuff like that. What have you guys done?

Amy & Dan, Dec 6, 2014 16 116
Katie
How to thank my wedding planner? Unusual situation...
Katie, on December 6, 2014 at 10:50 AM

When I lived in CO, I worked for a wedding planner for a short time. While I decided that event planning wasn't the career path for me, I kept in touch with the owner of the business and we've become...

edkeller33, Dec 6, 2014 4 298
MrsPope
Wedding invite by text message
MrsPope, on December 5, 2014 at 4:07 PM

Yep. You read it right. I just got a TEXT message from my birth Father's girlfriend saying "Hope your having a good day, I wanted to invite you and your family to me and your dads wedding at the...

VMDIZZLE, Dec 6, 2014 26 1,899
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How much should a groom spend on a wedding day gift for a bride?
Drue, on June 28, 2013 at 12:57 PM

It seems like a nice piece of jewelry is traditional. I'm curious if anyone has a suggestion on an amount to spend as a percentage of the wedding budget.

Charlie, Dec 4, 2014 24 13,391 1
L + A
Host mom's Visa application was denied to come to our wedding, thanks U.S. Consulate.
L + A, on December 2, 2014 at 11:29 PM

Got word from my host mom that her visa application was denied, after countless letters, statements, notarization, calls to the embassy in Mexico City as well as sending money on my end, and letters,...

L + A, Dec 3, 2014 30 175
Christine
Welcome Drinks
Christine, on December 2, 2014 at 11:56 AM

For anyone hosting welcome drinks or a party of some sort for out of town guests, how are you spreading the word? A paper invite, e-vite, word of mouth etc. We're going to let ours be open for...

Christine, Dec 3, 2014 9 3,462
Hayley
Ideas for between Ceremony and Reception.
Hayley, on December 1, 2014 at 1:25 PM

So, I am getting married outside at my parents farm at 1:00, reception does not start till about 5 for drink. The reception starts at a different location about 15 minutes away. The reception is a...

winnipegwriter, Dec 2, 2014 17 515
emsings83
RSVP Rant - My friends suck
emsings83, on November 14, 2014 at 1:44 PM

Okay, they don't really suck, but they're terrible at RSVP-ing. My RSVP date is tomorrow, and the ONLY people we have not yet received responses from are my friends from high school and college. FH is...

Cassandra, Dec 1, 2014 14 157
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when a friend wants to throw you the engagement party, how to handle?
adrienne, on December 1, 2014 at 4:06 PM

I have had 2 friends tell me they want to have an engagement party for my fiance and me. my fiance and i live over 3 hours away from each other so the parties are separate towns. how do i handle this?...

Dani, Dec 1, 2014 5 1,670
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OK to just have matron of honor and no MOH?
Michelle, on November 25, 2014 at 1:21 AM

The more I talk to people about my wedding plans and revealing my sister is my matron of honor (since she is married), the more people ask who my maid of honor will be also. Is it ok to just have a...

Reese, Dec 1, 2014 16 3,688
CN&AK
To write guests' names in RSVP card ahead? rude?
CN&AK, on November 29, 2014 at 6:18 PM

Is it rude or tacky that I'd write Guests names ahead of time in the card? I was thinking in that case I can avoid calling them later and disinvite their plus ones or children... I am passive...

Kimberly, Nov 30, 2014 13 2,547
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