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MIL gave card to husband only/wore white to wedding/etc
Sarah, on April 15, 2017 at 9:05 PM

We just got married! But we're kind of done with my MIL. She gave my husband a card specifically to him, when I wasn't around, and told him that it wasn't against me, yet told him not to tell me. He...

Katie, Apr 16, 2017 30 259
Deanna
Corsages and Boutonnieres for Family Members
Deanna, on April 14, 2017 at 10:18 AM

Is it mandatory to get corsages and boutonnieres for: Mother of Bride Mother of Groom Father of Groom Father of Bride Grandfathers Grandmothers ???

O, Apr 16, 2017 46 1,695
Sarah
When do you formally ask your bridal party?
Sarah, on April 16, 2017 at 3:19 AM

We finally booked a venue and got a date (yay!). However, due to the venue's popularity we had to book in Aug 2018 which still almost 1.5 years away (boo!). I have a list of bridesmaid and my fiancé...

T Marie, Apr 16, 2017 6 386
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Can anyone help me find the perfect ring?
Daniel, on April 13, 2017 at 10:55 PM

My soon to be fiance loves the rose gold "SERENA THE SWAN, SUPREME" from Catbird. The only problem is the center stone is rose cut...We have been looking for months for rings like it with a normal...

Aderine85, Apr 16, 2017 11 191
Randi
Gift for parents of the groom
Randi, on April 15, 2017 at 9:41 AM

Good morning I have not been able to decide on a gift for FH's parents. A lot seem "hokey" Any great ideas y'all have come across? (Pictures are welcomed as well) Thanks for letting me pick your...

xray12280, Apr 16, 2017 14 1,166
Kristen
Silicone rings
Kristen, on April 14, 2017 at 4:49 PM

So I ran into an older family friend today while at breakfast. I was heading straight to work after breakfast (a hospital kitchen) so I was wearing my work clothes, etc. She asked to see my engagement...

Kim, Apr 16, 2017 38 454
Megan K
kiiiinda can't breathe in my wedding dress...
Megan K, on June 11, 2013 at 3:07 PM

Anyone else have this issue?? My dress is pretty poofy and it's strapless so I get that it has to be tight to keep it up but I literally cannot take a deep breath. I tried explaining this to my...

Amanda, Apr 15, 2017 17 5,557
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Gifts for parents when one set of parents has paid more?
Rachel, on April 14, 2017 at 12:32 PM

My parents are being amazing and paying for the wedding. My FI's parents are contributing to a few things before and after the wedding (welcome reception for OOT guests, rehearsal dinner, etc.), but...

Elizabeth, Apr 15, 2017 31 2,068
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What are Wedding Hashtags used for?
Mindy, on April 9, 2017 at 2:49 PM

I know what hashtags are, I just don't know how they are used in regards to a wedding. I've seen them on wedding invitations, and I have a great one to use for myself. My fiancé and I are not on...

Mindy, Apr 15, 2017 5 1,161
Susan
No wonder people think honeyfunds are okay.....
Susan, on April 13, 2017 at 2:58 PM

Just started my Target registry and received an email from their universal registry, Blueprint Registry. The email says "Your Target Registry needs a honeymoon fund!" It also talks about how the...

Jenna, Apr 15, 2017 29 858
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Interracial Marriage
Sharonda, on April 9, 2017 at 12:53 AM

Planning a wedding, while trying to make sure everything is perfect is unrealistic ... I really need advice on my soon to be in law. *The Grandmother* I am in an interracial relationship and I know in...

Ohheyitscait, Apr 14, 2017 29 1,478
Sally
Bridesmaid doesn't want to wear dress
Sally, on April 11, 2017 at 1:51 AM

I have a certain bridesmaid who back when I first got engaged, she asked me to be a bridesmaid and I was so excited I said yes! I should have been smarter and realized it wasn't a good idea, as her...

annakay511, Apr 14, 2017 21 3,009
LuckyAK
Tacky Wedding Horror Stories
LuckyAK, on April 13, 2017 at 6:47 PM

I need a good laugh today- tell me the stupidest/craziest/tackiest wedding stories you have!!!

FutureBennis, Apr 14, 2017 41 2,039
Harleybeachbride
Rescue Remedy?
Harleybeachbride, on April 13, 2017 at 5:48 AM

Good morning everyone! In an effort to find a way to calm my nerves on my wedding day (as I don't drink alcohol but wishing I did.... to enjoy some mimosas! lol) so I ordered Rescue Remedy. Has anyone...

MeganM, Apr 14, 2017 16 84
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Asking who else is attending a wedding
Theresa, on April 13, 2017 at 1:43 PM

***Editing to say I will be the only one attending, no H. And this wedding is across the country so I'd be flying and staying overnight*** I just got invited to a high school friend's wedding! We've...

CoffeeNColor, Apr 13, 2017 18 1,921
Meghan
How to word a vegetarian option on your RSVP?
Meghan, on April 13, 2017 at 2:11 PM

Hello! I am designing our RSVP cards and unsure on how I should word the meal options. We have the option of two plated meals ( Beef Tips in Red Wine Sauce or Chicken Parmigiana), however the venue...

I'mthemom, Apr 13, 2017 11 15,291
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Do I have to do a wedding registry?
M, on April 13, 2017 at 6:53 PM

Hi all, I've been going back and forth on doing a registry, my MOH says I definitely should my FH says no because our family may look at it as we are demanding certain gifts and we won't be happy if...

Elphaba, Apr 13, 2017 6 3,221
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Let's talk wedding shoes!
M, on April 12, 2017 at 9:12 PM

Hi all, I'm going shopping tomorrow for my wedding shoes! When you went shopping for your shoes, what designer(s) did you like? What type of shoe did you ultimately go for? My favorite designers are...

Mary, Apr 13, 2017 35 140
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Gift for Wedding Date
Andrew, on April 13, 2017 at 11:48 AM

I am attending a wedding next month, was wondering whether or not to get my wedding date a small gift for attending? She is the guest and is a friend, not significant other or spouse. if so, any...

Andrew, Apr 13, 2017 8 1,300
FutureMrsMaidenName
Bridal Shower Hosting Question
FutureMrsMaidenName, on April 13, 2017 at 9:54 AM

My FMIL turned down my mom and step-mom's offer to co-host a shower so my two moms went ahead and have planned a shower for our side and sent out invitations over a week ago. A couple of days ago FMIL...

ChamM, Apr 13, 2017 14 871
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