Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

A good friend who my fiance and I go to church with who is a hair stylist and also does my hair offered to do my hair for our wedding and we had a conversation back in August how much my deposit would...

Do they even have one? Have any of u done your registry at VS or know somone who has? They have the best stuff! Thanks!

Where did you order your wedding thank you cards? We are 20 days post-wedding and I am starting to think we are not going to get a picture sneak peek. 😫 I really wanted to put a picture on our cards.

Hi! My husband and I eloped at age 19 and 20, still in college, broke of course. We didn't have a wedding, we were initially planning one but our lives got turned upside down by someone in our family...

We’re having a hard time deciding what to do for our wedding guest list. We are not doing a big to do wedding. Our plan is to get married at a court house and have a nice simple reception at a...

I have 2 Step kids (12 and 9) - they have different mothers and the 9 year old lives with us full time. The 12 year old comes over every other weekend. I also have a 5 year old Bio son from a previous...

Hi all, We are getting married the end of May. We have a tight guest list and have unfortunately had to cut back on a lot of people / kids due to the price of our venue / pp. We sent out save the...

We're getting married in a year, and have begun drafting guest lists. Friends in the past have applied the rule that plus one only goes to: living together/engaged/married. We went bridesmaid dress...

Do I have to tip this planner for this level of service? I feel like she's done nothing: -On several occasions, most recently 1 month out from the wedding, didn't respond for weeks at a time, coming...

We were talking about weddings yesterday and he was telling me about some that he's been too (I've never been to one) and he said that one wedding he and his family were invited to made them PAY to...

My fiancé and I are having a small destination wedding, literally only close family but there are quite a few and I’m not sure some would be willing or can travel. I’m thinking of either sending a...

So I'm not quite sure what the etiquette on this would be. We're trying to keep the rehearsal lunch (rehearsal is in the morning) small since FH and I are paying for it ourselves. On the guest list,...

Ok...so I have a major issue. I asked one of my friends(also cousin thru marriage) if she would be my bridesmaid as soon as I got engaged. Problem is that my fiance can not stand to even look at her....

Hi! My fiance and I are getting married October of 2025. I have my bridesmaids picked and was wondering if it was too soon to ask. My fiance and I will be relocating for his job in March and I really...

Hey all: I’m kind of troubleshooting certain difficulties in planning for my wedding, which is a super-budgeted destination affair due to my fiancé coming on a visa. We’ve been calling it an elopement...

My to be in laws are planning a rehearsal dinner and they weren't happy with the amount of people. Our bridal party by itself is 16 people (6 girls and 6 guys, 2 flower girls plus the groom and I) and...

This is about the third time my FMIL has mentioned us needing to put an announcement in the newspaper. I've never heard of doing that before so I googled it. Is this basically like a save the date for...

New here. We are in the Early stages of planning a very small ceremony. 20 included vendors is our max at my dream location. We have had issues with his adopted adult daughter ( his ex's kid not his...

I'm really considering nixing the wedding favors. I can't say that if I ever left a wedding without a wedding favor that I'd go around saying, "Omg I can't believe so&so didn't have wedding favors!!"...

I don’t write on forums but I’m hurt and this seems like the best place to ask questions. My son got married yesterday. The brides parents paid for all the wedding. We are not in a position at the...