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SEPTEMBER
Just Said Yes June 2024

Dad's girlfriend invited to our wedding?

SEPTEMBER, on February 15, 2024 at 7:14 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 7
Hi,

I have a dilemma that keeps me up at nights. My parents divorced more than 3 years ago. In a half a year after that, my dad started living with his new girlfriend whom I really like and we meet often all four with my fiance and spend time together.

My parents are in good terms, they sometimes call each other, tell how is it going and so on.
My mum doesn't have a boyfriend.
I now wonder if I should invite my father's girlfriend to our wedding. If my father goes alone, there won't be any other people from his side, except me. So he won't have a good time for sure and will be upset that I didn't invite his significant other.
If father's girlfriend will go to the wedding, my mum might feel really upset and uncomfortable, eventhough she assured me she will be fine. I just know she is a sensitive person and might not say how she really feels.
Maybe you could give me some advice?
It's so hard to keep everyone happy..

7 Comments

Latest activity by Daisy, on February 19, 2024 at 12:50 AM
  • Michael
    Rockstar October 2023
    Michael ·
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    Does your mom have a friend that can go with her just so she is not there alone?

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  • Jacks
    Rockstar November 2054
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    Honestly I think you need to respect that long term relationship and invite her. Your mom is going to be fine!

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  • SEPTEMBER
    Just Said Yes June 2024
    SEPTEMBER ·
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    Her sister along with her family will be there, so mum said she wants to be seated near her. She has a very good relation with her sister and her family. Also my fiance's mum is single will be alone too (my fiances dad has passed away) they also get along great with my mum and have spent time together before
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  • Michael
    Rockstar October 2023
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    It still can be offered to let her have a friend. Mostly there should be joy for her daughter getting married. And she will have other family there.

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    CM ·
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    While it may or may not be difficult for your mom, she’s a mature adult who can handle being civil in the presence of her ex and his partner for a few hours.


    Regardless, it would be blatantly rude not to invite your father’s long term live in girlfriend. I think it’s a nice gesture if possible to allow parents some guests of their own to share the occasion with so that may help, though it sounds as if your mom will be just fine.
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  • Andrea
    Rockstar January 2024
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    She’s a long-term partner, she needs to be invited. Give your mom a plus-one so she can invite a friend if she wants, and seat them as separately as you can. It’s one of those situations where adults smile and get through it for a few hours.
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    Beginner July 2028
    Daisy ·
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    Consider having a conversation with both parents separately to understand their feelings. Prioritize their comfort, but also prioritize your own happiness for your wedding day. Explore alternative solutions, like having your father bring a friend for company. Small gestures can help reassure your mother during the event.

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