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krystle d
VIP September 2012

Is anyone else just...exhausted...?

krystle d, on July 26, 2012 at 11:33 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 22

Besides the fact that I wake up at 5 am everyday for work, is anyone else just drained or exhausted from wedding planning? I think ever since the 2 month mark hit I’ve just been non-stop with this planning and I can’t seem to truly relax and not think about anything wedding related. Even FH talked to me and said that I don’t have the same energy I used to a couple weeks ago. After thinking about it I guess he’s right in a way…it’s not that I don’t have trouble sleeping it’s just thinking about wedding stuff, money and etc seems to be taking a toll on me physically and mentally. Has anyone been feeling this way? And for already married ladies did you have this problem then it went away after the wedding?

I really wish I could go back to sleep right now lol.

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Latest activity by Alison, on February 19, 2024 at 5:35 PM
  • Fawn
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    Yes, and it's turning me into a grumpy bitch... I literally have to keep myself in check so that I don't go off - especially at my wonderful FH. I think the key is to go out and do something fun and non-wedding related to blow off the stress.

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  • Cori
    Super September 2012
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    Ummm, yea. I have been like this for a while now. I am just not excited like I use to be. I think it is because no else is excited with me.

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  • Kirst
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    Im drained but were just SOOOO busy! mon nights i work my pt job, tues or wed we normally have our dance class...which leaves thurs to myself & then fri but we try to hang with friends then. we close on our home tomorrow so its just been none stop with emails planning bank stuff filling out paper work, phone calls etc...ughhh

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  • krystle d
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    @ Fawn that’s sooo true! I am also a grumpy bitch sometimes haha. Last night right after work I had to run around and do errands for my mom since she broke her foot. She lives almost 45 minutes from me so on top of wedding planning I have to run errands for her every week and I’m so tired! Last night I just took a long shower and closed my eyes before I blew up on FH lol.

    @ Kirst you must be waaay busy and your wedding is super close! Once your home closes and the wedding passes hopefully you'll finally be able to relax.

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  • Kirst
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    O ill be relaxing alright on the sandy beach tanning myself with a frozen drink in hand once we get to Jamacia!! lol im really looking forward to vacation, well i guess i should say the HONEYMOON!!!!!!!!! ahhhhhhhhh so close

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  • Fawn
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    Lol, Krystle - good to know I'm not the only one!

    @Kirst - I hear you! I can't wait to get to Oahu - a whole week of sun, sand, surf and pretty alcoholic drinks Smiley smile

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  • Trista
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    Yeah, I'm getting to that same point. I feel totally unmotivated as well. For instance, the past 3 weekends I have planned to do things on my checklist however I just don't feel like doing them and they keep getting pushed off.

    I also feel like I never get enough sleep either and my kids have so much going on that I feel I'm constantly running when I'm not at work. Ughh.

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  • Shannon S (Mrs Ski)
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    YES YES YES, I know what you are going through, I very done right now!

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  • krystle d
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    Oh man I can't wait for my honeymoon either!!

    @Trista I was unmotivated for the whole month of June lol. But now I'm just stressed out! Ugh

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  • Mayra
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    Jesus Christ Yes I'm so tired and stressed...Can't wait for it to be over.. I think eat and drink wedding...

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  • Aimee
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    Right there with you. i am so over all things wedding at this point.

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  • Amber
    Dedicated August 2012
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    Yes I am the same way. I guess it gets like that when the day is getting closer and closer.

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  • M.S.P.D
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    I am exhausted. I feel like I just need some sleep!

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  • krystle d
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    Well I'm glad I'm not alone. FH doesn't understand what planning a wedding does to a bride!

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  • Aimee
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    The other day FH and i got to talking about osmething he had to handle related to the wedding. he started getting all stressed and was like "whatever! im done talking about it!" and i just looked at him and said "welcome to my life for the last year!"

    i will be so glad when its over.

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  • krystle d
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    @ Aimee lol that's hilarious! Welcome to our world right? Geez I can't wait to be somewhat normal again lol.

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  • Ashley
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    Yes!!!! I wake up at 6am for work and haven't been getting to sleep until like 12 or 1am lately. I have so much to finish and even when I do lay down my mind races!! I just told FH yesterday that I don't think we have cooked dinner in our house in about 2 weeks b/c we are either grabbing something while out running around or eating at my Mom or Sister's b/c we are working on projects!! I can't wait for our Honeymoon Smiley smile

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  • krystle d
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    @Ashley at least your almost there then you'll be able to relax Smiley smile I hope I don't breakdown before the wedding lol

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  • mollie
    Devoted August 2012
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    9 days to go and I am totally exhausted. There is always something that needs to be done. We are both drained.

    @ Ashley S., at least you and I don't have to much longerSmiley smile

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  • krystle d
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    ^ yes I'm very jealous of you both right now lol.

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