Another thread on here reminded me of an issue I have that I haven't found a solution to.
My grandpa passed a few years ago and I'm still not over it. He was the man I wanted to walk me down the aisle (now no one is). I've lost a lot of family but no one has devastated me like he has.
I've gotten to where I can see his picture and not cry but if the right song comes on or I think about him too long the tears start. I'm tearing up writing about him lol.
My problem is that his brother looks just like him and he's coming to the wedding. No joke, the moment I see this man I burst into uncontrollable tears. Every. Single. Time. It doesn't stop either. I just keep crying hard. Thankfully he understands and gives me a hug but that doesn't help.
My solution is to avoid him all day so I don't cry so horribly on our wedding day but obviously that's rude and I can't do that. Have any of you dealt with this? What did you do? What would you do? I don't know how to look at him without balling my eyes out