Cake smashed in the face?

NOT. HAPPENING.

What happened to do unto others?

No way heard its bad luck anyway.

Nope. So disrespectful.

FH already knows this is a no-go for me. Plus it just isn't in his nature to smash food into people's faces- especially mine.

But shhhh I plan on putting a fingertip of frosting on his nose

I know some people are against this, but I say it's all in the couple and their communication about it. I don't see the need to smush it up their nose or into their hair, but a gentle smash in an easily cleaned area when you BOTH were on the same page about it shouldn't be a big deal.

I think it gets out of hand when one person "surprises" the other with it. As with everything else in marriage, it's about communication.

We are thinking of smashing it in our kids faces....but not eachother's

I personally think its tacky and I cringe when I see it happen at weddings. I feel if thats what you want to do, dont go overboard. A little smudged on the cheek is ok, all over my hair is divorce worthy.....lol

Nope no cake smashing at our wedding.

Nope not doing it

No cake smashing at our wedding. absolutely not. i'm not gonna spend all that money on hair and makeup to have cake smeared all over it.

plus, it's bad luck, or so i hear.

I can see if you are a spontaneous couple and you don't mind, then by all means go for it. But I have seen to many awkward brides who were pissed and trying to hide it.

No....and mostly because he'll retaliate...lol. I don't think it's that big of a deal as long as both partners know it's coming....

I think we will do tap on the nose, so just a touch gets on, but that's it. I'm not ruining my dress, hair or makeup.

My hair, make-up and dress cost WAY too much for them to have cake smashed all over them. my DH dabbed a little on my nose or something, which made for a cute photo, but i swore to him that i'd cry if he smashed it on me and so he didn't even think about it.

i'm not "against" cake smashing exactly, i guess i just don't get why anyone would want to look like a hot mess for the rest of their reception.

Ive already threatened him with no sex on the honeymoon if he smashes cake in my face. I told him if it gets on my dress or in my hair, he is sleeping on the couch.

He gets to smash cake in my face, if I get to smash fists in his balls.

If I tell my FH not to, he will. So i think I'll just not mention it and if he gets that look in his eyes when the time comes, he's gonna see a look in my eyes . . .

I hate a cake smash so much! We are using forks! Besides, we are doing the cake cutting immediately after the first dance (before dinner) - so the wait staff has time to cut it in time for dessert - that's a long reception to be lookin' a mess!

We didn't. I threatened him before the wedding, too. Told him I would kick every.one.out. Maybe wouldn't have done something that extreme but I would have cried.

I spent way too much money and time to look good and the cake was not cheap. I don't want to waste any of it. My FH wants to do it but I told him what would happen if he did. I would cry and tell the minister not to mail in our marriage license to make the marriage legal. Then he can move out. I did tell him he could smash one of the cupcakes in my face when we get home after the wedding.