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Happily married 🎉
September 21, 2019
Discussions
32I know that I cannot be the only individual that feels that a white (or off white) dress looks terrible on themselves. I look awful in light colors and have been looking for a black wedding dress. The...
Hi ladies, I need some advice. I am very close with some of my FH family members and they have expressed their desire to be at bachelorette party. Is it rude of me to invite those I'm close to and...
What three words best describe your wedding style? Being able to describe your decor style and overall vibe in just a few words will help you answer questions from inquisitive friends and family, and...
How long is the train on your wedding dress?? Is your train long, sweeping, and dramatic? Or are you keeping it a little more dance-floor friendly? Is your train short or long? Are you keeping it on...
What's the current state of your to-do list? Do you have just a few things left, or most of your planning still ahead of you? Is your wedding planning to-do list short or long? Next Question: Short or...
How much time are you giving yourselves to plan the big day? Will your engagement be short or long? Photo by Forever Photography in NYC Next Question: Short or Long To-Do List? Back to the Beginning:...
Hi Everyone, So I’m unsure about who is going to walk me down the aisle. I know the wedding tradition is the bride’s father but I’m not inviting my father. Quick story time: So my dad hasn’t been...
Do you think it’s rude to leave the wedding without saying goodbye to the bride or groom? If it was a small house party you’d say goodbye, but what about at a big wedding where the couple is busy? Do...
How do you feel about guests acting like the ceremony paparazzi? Do you think it’s fair game to snap a quick pic if the couple hasn’t explicitly stated it’s an unplugged ceremony? Or do you think it’s...
How do you feel about bringing a large gift with you to the wedding? Do you think it’s annoying and just another thing the couple has to worry about at the end of the night? Or are you on the side of...
What’s your take on wearing black to weddings? Do you think black is for funerals, not weddings? Or do you think a black dress or suit is always appropriate attire? How do you feel about black dresses...
If you’ve got a lot of out of town guests coming to your wedding, inviting them all to the rehearsal dinner can start to feel like a hosting second wedding. But they’ve traveled to come and celebrate...
When it comes to getting your hair and makeup done professionally as a bridesmaid, do you think if a bride requires it they should pay for it? Or do you think it’s a cost of being a bridesmaid? Do you...
How do you feel about having a gap between the wedding ceremony and reception? Do you think it’s a faux pas to leave your guests to entertain themselves in between your ceremony and reception? Or have...
Whether your friends and family are asking if they are invited or if “so and so” is invited, what are your thoughts on people asking about the guest list? Do you think it’s a faux pas or people just...
I’m in my 30’s and I noticed all across the states except for major metropolitan areas (NYC, LA, DC, ATL, etc) that women here get married fairly young. Before I became engaged I would hear people say...
I’ve been on the verge of tears for the past 24hrs because I can’t make one of my best friends happy. She’s asking the impossible for a bridesmaid dress. I found one that’s $80 (it will need a...
My mom died 12 years ago. I want to reserve her a seat at the ceremony. What is a polite, tactful way to do that? Thanks!
Help! I feel like I’m doing something wrong. Timeline: I got engaged 8/18, I asked my bridesmaids and MOH to be bridesmaids in 10/18. I had my 1st choice MOH decline, and one of my bridesmaids choices...
Hello , I’m having a hard time figuring out who to walk down the aisle with. Or if I should go alone. My mother passed away 8 years ago and my father passed away 10 years ago. I am only child and come...