Bach party invite help

Anything you decide will be great because you make the rules on that.

I think that depends on what you want. I don't plan to invite family to mine. But if I were, cousins would be the only ones to make the cut. Just a personal preference. I'd want the guest list to be similar in ages.

You don't need to invite everyone to the bach, it usually is a smaller affair anyway.

It’s up to you! If you want to include them in some way, but don’t want to have them there for everything maybe open the invite for part of the party. For example, you and your friends can do something during the day and then invite his family members to join you for dinner afterwards.

I'm in a similar situation and I don't know what to do either! One of his cousins is my bridesmaid so I'm pretty close with FH family. We've been together 10 years. I want to invite his other cousin, we'll call her K, but she is the same age as the bridesmaids sister, we'll call her H, (his other other cousin) and I think I've said 2 words to H in 10 years. BUT I feel like it'd hurt her feelings if I invited K and not her. I know K would be really excited to come. But I think it'd make it uncomfortable for me if H came because she seems a little more immature and I'm not sure I could really chill with her there or I'd be nervous.