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It feels like its been FOREVVERRRRR... Anyone else feel this way? Hows planning going? I started at June 8, 2019 and have till July 10, 2021. I wanted to get married this year but we got accepted on...

We just ordered our wedding invitations and they are gorgeous! The only thing I’m concerned about is we listed the discounted rate on the actual invite. I was trying to factor in older guests who...

Do you tip vendors ? (Dj, hair / makeup person & photographer )

I spoke with a local baker about cake tastings, and she said they charge $25 for one. I found this really off putting, and it makes me not even want to try them. We went to a group cake...

Hello! We are about 9 months out from our wedding and I am curious what you feel is the most important detail of a wedding reception is, as a guest. We are having a traditional ceremony, as FH says,...

Hi ladies...I am stressing big time!! So, I had my heart set on a soft muted wedding. My colors are dusty rose (mauve), light pink, ivory, and silver accents. My one and only BM, however, looked...

I am really struggling with this whole cake(s) purchase thing.....lol. They are soooo expensive! Is it a must that you have both a wedding and a groom cake? Has anyone considering using the bakery at...

Do people normally eat a lot of dessert? We want to do macaron favors (2 per person) and trying to think of ways to cut down cost... we’re toying with the idea of only having cake as the dessert, vs...

We had finalized our guest list and we were content...until catering sent us an invoice. Holy fuzzballs! We were forced to cut our guest list down to at least 100 people which was really hard! What...

Hi All, Just after advice did your bridesmaid or are they paying for anything regarding bridesmaid dress, hair or makeup I’m okay and happy to pay for it I just wasn’t sure how to approach that...

Currently only have 1 out of 10 dress orders in and 47 days out as of this morning. The girls are supposed to be ordering from Azazie and i’ve Told them which specific dress they need to order back in...

I wrote invitations by hand. The who evites and wedding websites were just giving me a headache. People were calling me trashy or tacky or cheap and list goes on for doing a private facebook event or...

I’m curious what bridesmaid gift(s) you have received in the past that you loved? What do you typically think makes a nice bridesmaid gift, other than jewelry?

Hello all! I am hoping to get some advice. I just got engaged a week ago and I am trying to decide how to tell my parents. I live about 10 hours away from them so it's not very easy to just drop in...

Hey all! So I’m in the middle of planning my August 2020 wedding and there’s something I’m definitely stuck on: dessert tables. I haven’t gone to many weddings so I don’t have experience in that, but...

I have an appointment to try on dresses for the first time. The shop only allows 1 hour for the appointment . Is that sufficient time to find something? I’ve been on their website and do like several...

How long did you want before you received your wedding video? I’m going on two months.

Like do you like pay money right then and now? It's frightening because things change, whether it's a family member or some financial thing. I just didn't know how that part worked. I have talked to...

I don't understand this wedding website part. I mean, how are you going to promote it? Facebook? I know people say stay away from Facebook, but I don't see anything wrong with making a private even....

How long after the wedding should I send the thank you cards? Is it rude to send them too late or to not send them at all? I bought some but haven’t had the time to send them. Do I have to write a...