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As a breastfeeding mother myself I understand how it can be difficult to make arrangements to weddings or other events where children are not invited, but if it’s important to us then we have happily...

Tell me your NOT LAME or sappy father daughter dance songs.

Hello there, I'm having a hard time with this and would like advice. So my husband and I got married in April this year, and I asked my best friend to be my maid of honor. She lives in New Jersey...

I have a best friend that I want to be my maid of honor and a married best friend that I would like to be my matron of honor. My sister (who I am not close with) assumes she is my maid of honor and I...

Long story short, after sending my bridesmaids letters asking them to be BMs and notifying them on details of the wedding (along with who else would be in the wedding party). One of my girlfriends...

I'm feeling conflicted when it comes to changing my last name after getting married. We're a little under a year out from our wedding and I was looking at 2 initial monograms with my and my fiance's...

I’m getting married in June of this year. My fiancé and I originally agreed to not have alcohol at our wedding. We felt it was unnecessary since neither of us will be drinking and avoid the extra cost...

Are you keeping your dress out of sight until the wedding? Did you find a clever place to keep it, or is this not an issue for you?

So my partner was asked to be in my brother in-laws wedding by his fiancé but brother in-law didn’t ask me. We have 2 children together and I’m expected to sit alone with them. No big deal. But then I...

The garter toss seems to be a hot button topic these days! Brides/Grooms, are you including this tradition in your reception, modifying it, or skipping? For our wedding we decided to skip the removal...

So one of my 3 sisters has been really horrible, and super jealous ALL her life of others getting married, and she was disruptive, selfish and ruined my other two sisters' weddings. Now I'm soon tying...

Hi, So I have kind of a difficult question I am hoping for some insight on from other brides. Me and my sister have a very TUMULTUOUS relationship, horrible fights even as adults. She has some serious...

What have you received that was amazing and heartfelt and what do you intend to give yours that aren’t generic stuff that will get donated?

I’m having a smaller wedding of about 50 people. On the invites (Save the dates) I’ll be putting something along the lines of “Monetary gifts only, will be collected by the day of coordinator” —Is...

Growing up my sister was badly emotional abusive to me, narcissistic, wanted to punish me for being born (she’s 15 years older than I am) and generally made my life miserable. I hardly speak if she’s...

I need a little advice. Is it weird to invite your coworkers but not their SO's (some are married/some just dating)? I already have a huge family and the list is getting tight with COVID restrictions....

I don't get child-free weddings. I am a former preschool teacher and I have been working with children for the past decade. I love kiddos. I have a lot of friends who are parents, 3 of 5 bridesmaids...

Our photographer was going to include videography in our package but we took too long to confirm with her and unfortunately now they don’t have anyone available. In recent months so many people have...

While looking at DJs we are continuously thinking that they are just so expensive! We’re not considering just using equipment the best man has (since he’s in a band) and just creating our own Spotify...