Discussions I've participated in

My FH wanted an extra groomsman, so I’m trying to select a final bridesmaid. Do I go with the long time friend I don’t speak to much, or the current friend I don’t have as much history with?

I have been dreaming of a cherry blossom-themed wedding for 12 years. I'm finally planning my wedding with a white and light blush pink palette. My matron of honor has agreed to wear pink and my...

So I have a weird situation. My FH's parents are divorced. His father has been dating a woman for a while. FH and I have both met her and obviously she is invited. But we do not know her last name and...

My oldest dearest friend was going to be one of my bridesmaids but passed away very unexpectedly. I want to leave her seat at the bridal able empty with maybe a picture of us. It is going to be tough,...

I'm a bridesmaid to one of my friends who lives in another state, about a 1.5-2 hour drive away from me. I RSVP'd to attend her engagement party, but now I'm not sure if I'll be able to make it due to...

Hello, I'm getting ready to withdraw money for tips and I can't find online how much you should tip the elevator attendant. It's a big elevator that will have a person operating it. I know I should...

Hi Ladies, The big day is coming fast and I'm freaking out. So we were originally planning to server bruschetta during cocktail hour. The caterer quoted us 4 pieces per person. Do we need to add a...

How many bridesmaids did you guys have? I want six but my FH thinks it’s too many!

Hello, my Nov birdes how's is everything going ...I have like 2 months to go. How's everyone else doing, I'm super nervous and anxious. I have a lot of little things to get done, but I find myself...

Has the wedding brought up any emotions ? I’m over the planning . I’m over covid and vaccinations and family drama . I’m 6 months away and I just want to elope . Am I the only one struggling ? I’ve...

Hi All, I'm about three days out from my RSVP deadline and still haven't received RSVPs from 24 invitations. I was wondering what the etiquette is here. Is a non RVSP a no or do I have to follow up...

Old school etiquette* says it is taboo unless it’s required by the venue for entry, similar to Black/White Tie for the Oscars, and some older generations will be offended. What are your thoughts as a...

My husbands brother (M20) is engaged to a girl with 2 children, one is his child. They first got together when they were both 18 and she already had her daughter (1 year old at the time). They got...

Weird question but would you be offended as a guest by the lyrics in this song for a first dance? I really love this song but I don't want people thinking we're saying they don't believe in us. Some...

What item are you “breaking the bank” on? Or is there an item you are spending way more on than you had anticipated?

Like everyone else, Covid has turned all our wedding plans upside down. We have invited around 75 people and are still waiting on quite a few RSVPs to be sent back to us, but I’m worried we will only...

For those of you not going to your honeymoon after your wedding, how much time are you taking off before/after? I am a teacher. So far I'm taking off the day of my wedding (Friday) and I already don't...