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Tina & Darren
Devoted November 2021

Nov brides cont.

Tina & Darren, on August 31, 2021 at 4:35 PM Posted in Planning 3 16

Hello, my Nov birdes how's is everything going ...I have like 2 months to go. How's everyone else doing, I'm super nervous and anxious. I have a lot of little things to get done, but I find myself crying every now and then. Everyone is telling me it's normal, but I'm like why am I crying and can't stop.

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Latest activity by A.B., on September 30, 2021 at 1:02 PM
  • Rochellex7
    Savvy November 2021
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    I hear you. So much to get done. I didnt order my centerpieces, or order flowers for arbor, my groom didnt even pick out his suit. Were november 13th, 2021. I'm freaking. What color flowers and bridesmaids are you doing?
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  • Tina & Darren
    Devoted November 2021
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    My colors are wine, navy, and blush....my bridesmaids are wine and I have seven of each.

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  • Sav
    Dedicated November 2021
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    I’m also November 13th 2021


    I also have so many little things I have to get done. And some days I just feel too anxious about it and can’t. Then other days I’m extremely productive and get more done than I thought! I’m excited to be married, but with COVID a lot of the wedding fun got stripped away.
    Your colors sound beautiful! I love blush and navy together! Your wedding will be beautiful!
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  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
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    I definitely was nervous and anxious but I never cried about it. It can be overwhelming though

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  • A.B.
    Dedicated November 2021
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    I'm in a similar boat OP. Mostly over COVID stuff. I'm trying not to be a bridezilla but I can't exactly be go with the flow on safety and it's been a lot of deeply uncomfortable conversations with guests and vendors. It sucks b/c I know people that don't think it's a big deal are going to assume I'm being controlling but if I just do nothing to keep the peace I'm literally putting all my love ones at risk. Not to mention all the of finalizing details and stuff. It's okay to cry; it's a stressful time.

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  • Tina & Darren
    Devoted November 2021
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    Yea that's true some people don't understand how important covid is
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  • Veronica
    Dedicated November 2021
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    Nov. 13th bride here and I've been having a hard time getting excited about anything. COVID has really screwed up wedding planning and it just hasn't been fun, like people said it was going to be.

    I've JUST started to feel excited when I saw samples of the bouquets (we went sola flowers) and the guys got fitted for suits, but that has just been within the past week.

    If you are having a particularly bad day, cry it out! Get it out of your system! If you can afford it, treat yourself to a spa day. That's my plan...crying it out and a spa day....alone!

    You'll get through it and will be able to enjoy your day.

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  • Tina & Darren
    Devoted November 2021
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    Yea we just found out we have to cut our guess list due to covid
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  • R
    Just Said Yes November 2021
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    Hello! My Wedding is the weekend after Thanksgiving and my panic dreams have started. I also have so much of the small things to do. COVID adds such a huge stress factor and I honestly am so unsure of how its going to affect our big day! Hang in there though!

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  • Yessenia
    Savvy November 2021
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    Hi! My destination Catholic wedding (NOT at an all inclusive) in Cancun is Nov 10th. All done with the planning side of it. We all have our outfits (me+ husband + our 3 kids) and accessories, but we need alterations on them! Less than 10 weeks left and I am so excited! We've been together 14 years and are legally married (no party), but finally having my religious wedding.
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  • Stacy
    Just Said Yes November 2021
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    Same boat, 11/17/2021 it's coming up so fast!! And my bridesmaids haven't even gotten there dresses, my bridesmaids also haven't communicated with me at all.. it's not fun anymore. I was so excited to buy decorations here and there but I have no one to share the excitement with. My FH his groomsmen haven't bought there vest either. Our guest count keeps getting smaller we are now at 20 ppl coming. Most of that is his family. 🥺
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  • Tina & Darren
    Devoted November 2021
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    Oh wow I'm sorry to here that..,u should be happy for and on that day how many guest did u ordinally have
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  • Veronica
    Dedicated November 2021
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    I'm sorry. You can share with us here on WW!

    As for your groomsmen and bridesmaids, try reaching out to them and seeing what the holdup is? I have a small wedding party and one of the BM got her dress on Amazon and I'm 100% ok with that. She's still within the color scheme. The two GM are my finacee's sons, so they got all their stuff together.

    I know you probably had your heart set on who would be at your wedding, but try to just enjoy the day with those that can make it. I realized halfway through my planning I had wish I had chosen to elope! LOL

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  • Tina & Darren
    Devoted November 2021
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    Hey lady's we got 37 days left...r we getting excited
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  • Tina & Darren
    Devoted November 2021
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    Now we're down to a month before our big day everything is coming together....me im super excited can't wait
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  • A.B.
    Dedicated November 2021
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    I'm honestly both excited and stressed. My RSVP date is next week and so far only 21 guests confirmed out of 75 invited. My wedding is Friday and I have a vaccine requirement so I'm expecting a low turn out but I am hoping for about 40 guests. At least some of the no replies are bridal party members so I'm just waiting on their meals not their yes.

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