Discussions I've participated in

So I live in New York and our wedding is 10/31/21. The governor just announced we will be able to have 150 guests and every guest must get tested beforehand. The thing is we had an original number of...

My FH and I sent save the dates out to 101 guests at the end of October when we were more optimistic about the future state of things. Our wedding is June 12th in Massachusetts, where guest counts are...

Long story short - around May 2020 I asked 3 friends to be bridesmaids, then July 2020 suddenly my fiancé’s mother passed away. Since her passing we are not wanting to do any sort of wedding planning...

So I am curious about a topic that seems to be quite controversial: having a guest “B list” For those who don’t know, a B list is a list of guests who don’t make the initial guest list cut for one...

My sister has recently tried to make two different demands for our wedding or she says she will drop out. The first one is that she wants her step-son to be allowed to attend. We are having a child...

Hi everyone, happy holidays! I wonder if anyone has been in a similar situation and may be able to offer some advice. My boyfriend (24M) and I (24F) have been together for the past 4 years (our 4 year...

Hi everyone, Need some advice/venting about bridesmaid drama. I have a friend I’ve had for a very long time, since before high school. She’s always been supportive- physically attending my life’s...

SORRY FOR THE LONG POST So I didn't think I would have to make this post because I avoid drama like the plague.... If an issue even comes up I am quick to squash and move on. Unfortunately this just...

Hey everyone! There’s something I’ve been thinking about a lot and am having a hard time figuring out what to do. My future MIL is a mildly heavy drinker. She doesn’t necessarily take shots or drink...

Like many of you, I am a Covid bride who was slated to have my big wedding this past September 2020. After facing the heartbreaking reality we weren’t able to more forward with our 250+ person...

I am in a real pickle with my future MIL... Me and my fiance have 2 children (1 and 2 years old) that are going to be our ring bearer and flower girl. Now my MIL is pitching a fit because she thinks...

Because of Covid we couldn’t invite everyone we wanted but we have received several gifts from family members and friends that were not invited. This makes me feel terrible. Is this common? Even...

Is anyone else writing thank you cards for those that couldn’t come whether it’s due to being sick, being exposed, unable to travel, being high risk and cautious? I don’t know what to say but I want...

Hi WW friends, I'm working on invitations for our destination wedding and need some advice on wording + etiquette for which I'm super unfamiliar (our wedding will be fairly casual). My mom is very...

I recently saw an idea, but I need some feed back. I saw someone posted a pic of thank you notes they put at each place setting at the table. How would you feel about this idea? I'm thinking it's a...

Hi guys! My fiancé and i are trying to figure out ideas for our wedding dinner. Our wedding is in November and we want buffet style. Tell me what you guys think?

Alright y’all. I am working on the guests list with my FH. We both having gigantic families, like our original guest list was like easily 300+ if everyone was invited. If my dad for some reason can’t...

So I had asked 7 people to be my bridesmaids, one was sort of just me being nice because it’s my fiancé’s sister but I never speak to her and am not close with her I just felt pressured. My fiancé can...

Do you all think it’s ok to put on the invitations only wear certain colors??? I was told it was a bit much!!! That’s what I want though...

Hi everyone! I hope everyone is well or as good as can be in these crazy times. We were supposed to get married December 26th 2020, we postponed to next August and I’ve been hearing the restrictions...