Discussions I've participated in

My wedding coordinator recommended I start working on my seating chart now and adjusting as the RSVPs come in to save me some time closer to the wedding. How did you have your seating arranged? We are...

I know in Indian culture they do this. It seems lovely putting flowers and balloons and stuff around your house and even keeping them up for a bit longer after the wedding 😍

Is everyone (or was everyone) invited to your wedding? Was it adult only or were kids also allowed to come? My fiance and I are doing an adult only wedding with an exception to the kids who are in the...

I have a small close knit group of coworkers. One of them is a very picky eater and does not drink. If he attends, he might eat cake and that would be all. He also talks crap about me behind my back....

My FH and I found and booked the perfect reception venue. However it is 40 minutes from his church and 45 from mine. We would really like to try and have our ceremony at one of our churches but dont...

Hello all! I’m not sure if this is the proper group for this discussion. However, I wanted to know if you ladies and/or gents wear your engagement rings all the time. Recently, I was made to feel bad,...

Hey brides!! I’m so upset and I feel like I am being forced into something I don’t want. I am having a kid free wedding. (August 15,2021). My family does not think it’s a good idea because a few of my...

I just received a thank you note from a wedding I attended with a generic thank you poem that they copy and pasted on everyone’s card. As someone who spent hours writing personalized thank you notes...

Do you all think it’s ok to put on the invitations only wear certain colors??? I was told it was a bit much!!! That’s what I want though...

Hi everyone. I just got engaged recently and I wanted to know when a good time to start planning would be. We don’t have a date set but we are thinking May or June of next year. Is it too early to...

Are you inviting kids to your wedding? We have decided to have an adult only wedding with Exception of kids who are in the wedding what is the best way to tell people they cannot bring their kids it...

For those that haven't heard of it! Pantry shower is a great opportunity for friends and family to get together and help the bride-to-be equip her new kitchen with necessities and splurges! The...

So FH and I have an issue...we were originally envisioning a large wedding (but never sent out save the dates) and have since chosen family-only due to COVID and what we can afford. Two of FMIL's...

Has anyone else had people say they're not coming to the wedding after they RSVP'D that they'd be there? I let a rant out on Facebook and said how mad I was and rude that is to do that. Some of it is...

Hello all, We are supposed to get married on 10/10/20 (the Perfect 10). Due to Covid, we are planning to postpone until next May. The main reason is because we have a lot of elderly guests and out of...

Hi ladies! I hope everyone is so excited for their big day! I have a few questions - Do I mention I want something new, something blue, etc, to my bridesmaids? Or Do I not mention that and if it...

I need some advice on how much to give my sister for her wedding on Friday. Due to COVID she cut the list of people who could come and I was not invited but other members of my family were. At the...

Hello All, For our wedding next June, our reception is at a hotel and our ceremony is at a small church about a 10 - 15 minute drive away. Because the church is so small and has limited parking, we...

Hello all! First time posting here and in desperate need of advice.. So my fiancé and I live on an island in the Puget sound area. We’re getting married on August 14, 2021, so a year an a half away....

I'm in that stage of life when all of my friends are getting married, and literally every wedding so far has had a black tie dress code. However, the weddings haven't been black tie in the traditional...