Discussions I've participated in

Disclaimer: I need to say this upfront but “Tell them it’s your day, not theirs!” and “You’re the one paying for it!” is not going to be the answer for me. It’s ignoring a lot of cultural background...

Hi guys! I need some other people's advice on this: Is sneaking out during the cocktail hour after pictures for 30 mins to catch a private meal with my new husband rude? I had seen this idea floating...

Hey everyone! Been living in my own head space the last week after my 10/14 wedding. I did 95% of the planning myself & after meeting with all vendors was very happy & confident that...

I have always been very non-traditional. And ever since I could remember, I've wanted to get married in a black gown. But I am having so much trouble finding them! I know getting it custom made would...

My fiancé and I are having a hard time agreeing on what we want our style to be I love the cottage core look fairy lights in the woods (perfect because our venue is surrounded by trees) he wants a...

If you're like me, you grew up watching Say Yes to the Dress and expecting you'd be able to afford a $3,000 wedding dress. And if you're like me, you'll have quickly realized post-engagement...

Anyone else play sort of unconventional wedding music for cocktail hour or dinner? My fiancé and I are big into alternative music (nothing heavy sounding or anything) and our DJ said to pick songs...

What were the best wedding favors you ever received and why? And which one was the worst? I had a lively discussion about this with my mother and it got me curious. My personal top three are: 1)...

I’m seriously considering getting a therapist because of all the stress coming out of wedding planning. A part of me feels it’s justified, another part says it’s frivolous. A lot of the stress is not...

I'm super curious to see where everyone is shopping at and how many dresses until you found the one you want to wear for the wedding.

This is just a rant because I’m so tired of have to closely work with immature passive-aggressive people. It’s like highschool all over again and I absolutely hated highschool! My workplace has mostly...

I came across some wedding etiquette tips that suggested it was rude to ask a guest/relative to perform for one’s wedding. It got me wondering about something we’ve been discussing for ours. One of my...

I’m having some weird anxiety over apparently doing things out of order. A lot of sites have checklists and timelines…I know they’re recommendations and not hard and fast rules but I can’t help but...

I’m extremely heartbroken, and I don’t know what to do. I ordered a beautiful dress that I love from David’s Bridal. Because the top is mesh with appliqués, I was scared to take it elsewhere so I made...