Discussions I've participated in

Hi! I'm having a little trouble deciding on the best way to communicate our specific "kid policy." We're getting married Nov. 20 in northern IL, evening ceremony and reception both in a large barn on...

I’m really hoping this doesn’t turn into a rant but damn y’all my feelings are hurt. A couple i am associated with through my significant other are getting married in the fall. They have been adamant...

My brother is getting married. I am a bridesmaid. All of my siblings and his fiancés siblings are allowed to bring their SO’s to the wedding (ceremony and evening reception). I will have been in a...

I'm hoping this post doesn't result in negativity though I know I run the risk of attacks here. The title may make me sound greedy, superficial and ungrateful but I promise I'm not. I'm incredibly...

We are planning a November 5 wedding, but have been engaged just less than a month. Everything is coming together fine on a short timeline so far, except we are just now ready to order save the dates....

I wanna start this with saying I’m very nervous about posting this on here, so please be nice. My sister and I are extremely close. We’re best friends even. She’s getting married at the end of the...

I know very little about wedding planning. I am 30 and most of my friends and my 2 sisters are unmarried. I don't know how to share with family that I have found a venue and booked a date. I am also...

I thought I was ahead of the game but found out that our date is already taken on most of our desired venue list. So now, thinking of doing either a friday or sunday wedding. 40-50% of our guests will...

Hi there! I need someone to vent to, commiserate, or speak to me on this. I have not many supporting roles in my life due to my family passing away tragically. I've been with my SO for 11 yrs. Around...

We've already done the big stuff of course (venue, DJ, catering, photography) but there's so many little details to keep track of now that we are coming down to the wire! Here are the details we have...

Hi! So I’ve just said yes and we are officially on the hunt for a venue and vendors. We started off with a very low budget that as I researched realized was just not realistic. So we upped that number...

Someone recently told me in a Facebook wedding group that nobody does head tables anymore for their wedding party. Am I just behind the times or is that not true? I don’t go to a lot of weddings, but...

Well, we did it - October 22, 2021, my husband and I wed in a Catholic ceremony followed by a reception. When we started planning in August 2020, we anxiously awaited changes to Covid restrictions. We...

Hello brides! This past weekend was my bridal brunch, which my mom hosted at my parents house. It was just my bridal party, mom, MIL and 2 SILs (7 people total). I didn't want a traditional shower, so...

Hello everyone! I opted to have two maid of honors for my wedding as I couldn't choose between the two of them but now I am starting to doubt asking one of them as she hasn't been doing much of...

I've seen so many posts in my wedding-related Facebook groups about photobombers recently, and it has me a little worried about my own reception! It is already implied that our ceremony is unplugged...

Do we need to tip in cash? I'd much prefer to write a check or Venmo. I don't want to deal with a ton of cash on my wedding day (or any day). I'm in the US, so most people don't carry cash anyway. I'm...

Hi, everyone! I can’t believe that I’m almost exactly a month away from my wedding date! Does anyone have any recommendations for a perfume that would suit a beach wedding? I tend to lean towards...