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OldSchoolKindaLove
Failing Marriage Warning Signs
OldSchoolKindaLove, on May 20, 2020 at 5:50 PM

For those who have been married and divorced, or those who have been married on the brink of divorce. I need some help. 1.)What were the warning signs that your marriage was failing? 2.) What steps...

Katharine, May 21, 2020 5
Christina
covid ceremony... sister in law mad
Christina, on May 9, 2020 at 12:17 AM

It hasn’t even been a full 24 hours since I made the announcement that we are postponing to next year. Me and future husband are still Legally getting married on our date and planned on having less...

Anna, May 12, 2020 14
Sarah
Grandfather has Alzheimer's...can't attend wedding.
Sarah, on February 2, 2020 at 11:55 AM

My grandfather has had Alzheimer's for over 10 years and lives in a nursing home. He has a hard time being out for long periods of time, so he won't be attending our wedding. I am having a memorial...

Molly, Feb 12, 2020 9
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Buying a Home
Future Mrs. B, on January 13, 2020 at 8:59 AM

How much did you put in a deposit? And closing cost? I’m trying to figure out what will be the minimum amount I can put in?

Ellen, Jan 13, 2020 15 1
Kayla
Grandma Not Attending Wedding Because I’m Not Religious
Kayla, on September 8, 2019 at 6:04 PM

This is a spin on a question I’m sure has been asked too many times - but I can’t find anything with a specifically religious factor. I grew up traditional Catholic, Grandma is still Catholic. I...

Kayla, Sep 14, 2019 14
OldSchoolKindaLove
Marriage Counseling
OldSchoolKindaLove, on July 16, 2019 at 3:51 PM

We got married almost 9 months ago, and it's been less than ideal for the both of us. I started feeling a disconnect between my husband and myself back in March, and asked him to consider counseling,...

Future Mrs. Polar Be, Aug 14, 2019 18
Broken Engagement
, on July 6, 2019 at 9:23 AM

LONG POST.. but completely lost and heartbroken. My partner and I have been together for over 3 years, engaged for 2. We never argued, always got along. We were seriously inseparable. I am in nursing...

Diana, Jul 10, 2019 34
Gabriela
How do married couples manage joint finances?
Gabriela, on June 17, 2019 at 8:56 PM

My Fiancé and I will be living together after we get married. We both currently are living with our parents. I had an apartment before but transferred to a university closer to home so it made more...

Nicole, Jun 19, 2019 60 3
Savina
Nervously Engaged & Wedding Planning
Savina, on June 4, 2019 at 3:32 PM

Hiya Ladies, so I am a relatively young bride (I'll be 22 by my anticipated wedding month). So my fiance and I got engaged a while back, and my parents weren't exactly thrilled but have come to terms...

Renee, Jun 7, 2019 22
OldSchoolKindaLove
Post Marriage Counseling
OldSchoolKindaLove, on April 10, 2019 at 9:21 AM

Did anyone ever take post marriage counseling? If so, do you have any advice?

OldSchoolKindaLove, Apr 16, 2019 21
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My husband messages women on Facebook. Is this acceptable?
Catherine, on May 6, 2018 at 9:44 PM

Hi. I decided to join this forum because I need a second opinion regarding a problem I'm having. I've been married to my husband for almost 4 years and when we dated he had a few female friends. I was...

Crystal, Jul 21, 2018 9
Tara
Mother of b and g wear pants, no dresses, help?
Tara, on January 25, 2018 at 5:43 PM

My mother and FH's mom's are 73 and 88. They don't wear dresses. Has anyone found evening-wear pants suits? Alas, its not helping me that both are petite. I've looked at two bridal shops and online, I...

WED18, Jan 26, 2018 16
6-22-19 Mrs.williams
Big day makeup trial
6-22-19 Mrs.williams, on January 12, 2018 at 4:45 PM

I've been trying different things to do the makeup myself. How does this look?

Officiallymrs, Mar 6, 2018 40
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fmil being controlling
Adriana, on December 28, 2017 at 10:48 PM

My FMIL has lately been very controlling of my relationship with my FH. She has sat us down various times and told us she doesn’t think we’re ready and tries to tell us what to do constantly. My...

Kylee, Dec 30, 2017 3
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Newlyweds : In-laws Living With Us
Lauren, on December 27, 2017 at 10:33 PM

I've had no say in any part of our living situation as Newlyweds, and my partner doesn't have a whole lot of say with his parents either. A year before we got married, my husband's parents sold their...

Litia, Dec 30, 2017 15
Martha
Bride and Groom taking both last names question
Martha, on December 17, 2017 at 8:03 PM

Quick background: FH and I are both planning changing our names to have my maiden name and his name. We want both our names to be First Name Middle Name My Maiden Name His Last Name. We're not sure if...

The OGest OG of All, Dec 18, 2017 13
GoodMOB
Tell me all the possible places to find ribbon, please?
GoodMOB, on December 16, 2017 at 10:22 PM

DIL made up 3 possible centerpieces for our daughter's wedding, and we've got some great ideas going. I will be looking for pretty specific ribbon, and need to look online for lots of possible places....

mcBRIDEtobe, Dec 17, 2017 16
Leunda
KWR. wait on children??
Leunda, on December 16, 2017 at 12:00 PM

A LOT of people say babies are right after marriage? Anybody waiting to have children? Anybody just want there soon to be FH all to themselves for a few years, or is it just me?

Soon-To-Be Mrs. G, Dec 18, 2017 56
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No aisle to walk down
Autumn, on December 10, 2017 at 9:29 PM

I have a beautiful ceremony site in a park gazebo off a pond but the most irritating part is there is no way of me walking down the aisle unless I walk next to everyone and behind them because there...

Autumn, Jul 10, 2018 29
Katie M.
Big family
Katie M., on December 10, 2017 at 2:27 PM

I honestly do not know what to do in my situation and I guess I am looking for advice. My mom and FMIL are hosting an engagement party. FH and I sat together and made the guest list two months ago and...

Kristin, Dec 10, 2017 11