Discussions I've participated in

My fiance and I had originally planned on not having wedding favors for guests. We’re having a two-day wedding (Friday night religious ceremony with small ice cream social for family and close friends...

I have never been good with wording. I have asked for advised a few times from friends send planner and I get nothing.. please be kind and honest Kindly RespondWe ask you to reply before April...

Hello!! I need some help for budget friendly venues in the Chicagoland area. I am running into a few road blocks and could use some help!

Hi everyone, I have only been engaged for about 10 days but I am starting to think about planning. So, first is the venue - most of the places I’m seeing say 12-16 hour rentals, so 9am to midnight or...

How long have you guys waited to reach out to your photographer regarding getting your pictures back? Our contract states 6-10 weeks turn around, and it has been well over that. Don’t want to be an...

Hey all! I am BACK AND MARRIED! I got married on 10/10, just a few days ago. It was my dream wedding in all ways. I can't wait to share photos with you all. But I also want to share a kind of weird...

Hi all! Brand new here and freshly engaged. Am I out of my mind for hoping we can pull off sept/oct 2022? I’ve known tons of people who have made weddings happen in under a year- but I keep hearing...

Hi all, I know this has been discussed in the past but it seems a lot of people are going either fully online or fully snail mail with their invites. I was considering going for more of a hybrid where...

How do you all finesse asking your bridesmaids for their sizes? I'm getting us all personalized PJs and I'm not sure how to ask them what size they wear... I know it can be a touchy subject for some....

I'm a bridesmaid to one of my friends who lives in another state, about a 1.5-2 hour drive away from me. I RSVP'd to attend her engagement party, but now I'm not sure if I'll be able to make it due to...

Hi All, Would appreciate an ear and any advice you have. I got married almost a month ago and two things happened that really bothered me. 1. A really good friend blew off our wedding. First it took...

Hi ladies! Ok I know this question has been asked many times before, but I was hoping to rehash the discussion for those who have been there. Fiancé and I do not have a charity near and dear to our...

My bridesmaid may has found a dress that they all loved. However, when I went home I started thinking their dress may take away from mine. My dress is being altered to have a high slit in it. The...

So going in to planning our wedding, I knew I wanted the cake to be on my MUSTS list. I wanted the cake to be the main part of the dessert. So we decided on a baker which honestly blew our minds with...

I'm having a destination with about 50 guests and I'm debating on if a day of coordinator is necessary. I can have a trusted family member send us down the aisle at the right time can't I? Has anyone...

My oldest dearest friend was going to be one of my bridesmaids but passed away very unexpectedly. I want to leave her seat at the bridal able empty with maybe a picture of us. It is going to be tough,...