Discussions by Alejandra

Hi all, I’m wondering which vendors typically get tipped and how much? Additionally, why is tipping vendors a thing? I only ask because outside of planning a wedding, I had never heard about that....

Hi all, My makeup package includes fake lashes, and while I love the look, I think they’re somewhat uncomfortable because I can see them. I’m also scared of them accidentally falling off, which I know...

I bought my wedding dress in 2019. Since then, a lot has happened both personally and in the world. I went to my first fitting yesterday and my dress is too small, by about 4-6 inches I think. I’m...

Hi all, I’m curious to know how other people go about wearing their engagement rings right before the ceremony. My understanding is that the order of rings (and how I plan on wearing them) is wedding...

Hi all, I need to find something to wear under my dress, but the back is completely see through almost all the way down fo my lower back. I’m wondering what I should be looking for and where to find...

In 2019, I picked my dress, veil, headpiece, and belt. I ordered them all together and placed a deposit. I was later informed that the deposit only went towards my dress, not the accessories. This was...

What are you getting your groomsmen as gifts? We are getting either shirts/pajamas for the bridesmaids to wear while we all get ready, but I’m wondering what to get the guys. I came across a...

I’m wondering what people would prefer to get ready in the morning of the wedding - a nice silk robe or flannel pajamas? We still be getting married in the Midwest in November so most likely chilly. I...

Hi all, My fiance and I are having are engagement session at the end of this month. I plan on getting my nails done (side note, since the start of the pandemic, has anyone gotten their nails done at a...

So not these aren’t my caterers, but our venue wants us to use their preferred caterers or pay an extra $1000. It’s a buffet of one entre and a few sides with a Mac n cheese bar for cocktail...

Hi all, FH and I have come to the difficult decision that his sister won’t be invited to our wedding. His parents have seen how mean and rude she is to both of us, so I don’t think they’d be super...

Hi all, hope everyone is doing well! To clarify - we ARE NOT rescheduling as of right now nor do we have plans to. But I spoke to our coordinator yesterday and she said depending on the next few...

Hi all, Did you or your future spouse get new clothes for your engagement photo session? If so, where did you go? I want to find a cute mini dress for our formal session and I’m not sure exactly what...

Hi all! I’m debating what to walk down the aisle to. I’m not sure if I should stick to something traditional like Canon in D or Trumpet Voluntary only because it’s the only time I’ll be able to do...

Hi all, We’ve decided to get my ring deep cleaned before our wedding this year. It’ll take about three weeks. I’m wondering if I can buy like a smaller “fake" engagement ring or something like that...

Hi all, one of my bridesmaids stepped down tonight. She’s going through a super rough person time, which I completely understand. I don’t resent her, but I am pretty bummed. I’m wondering (probably...