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We are at $ 10K for 65 guests ( wedding outfits and wedding band not included). What is your budget?

I’m getting ready to send our STDs, and I’m looking to buy stamps. We are just doing postcards, so I can buy cheaper, 35¢ stamps, but the ones available at USPS are so ugly! Weird seashells and coral...

My fiancé and I have decided we are going to do a ceremony only wedding. We’re doing a complete DIY wedding in a state forest. However I’m at a loss for words for the invites. We’re mainly inviting...

I'm excited to start planning but my fiance and I can't seem to pick a date. How did you guys pick your dates?

So our biggest expense is going to be the caterer/bar, as they are a package deal. With 150 guests we are paying $10k for food and drink: sit down dinner plus a “nothings table” with slider...

I have only been to a couple wedding in my lifetime none of which were in the early-mid afternoon. Would you as a guest be disappointed if there was no booze at said wedding? I get why morning wedding...

How do you feel about a destination wedding? My fiancé thinks that it would be selfish to have a wedding that guest would have to pay to attend. I think that I should be able to be “selfish” when it’s...

My fiancé says he just wants us and our two babies to be apart of the ceremony. No groomsmen or bridesmaids. I see both pros and cons to this as I wont have anxiety of feeling someone is left out or...

Hey ladies, Getting quotes from vendors for our wedding and I am OBSESSED with a local photographer. Totally amazing. However her wedding fee is $3,000. Maybe that’s cheap to some people but to...

Hey everyone! I’m super new to this app (literally stumbled upon it today), and although my fiancé and I have known each other for 7 years now (dating for 1 year), and got engaged this Christmas Eve,...

Which of these websites are you using for your website, rsvp/guest tracking and registry? Pros and cons? Favorites? I have all three downloaded and recently started adding a few things to Zola, but I...

My fiance and I had decided on doing a cookout for our wedding reception but his coworkers have him convinced that it is trashy and redneck to have a cookout. (We're doing it at a state park in...

Hi winter brides! Would love to chat and see how you plan on handling the weather, keeping yourself and bridal party warm and decor tips on how to keep it wintry but not Christmas-y! Or this can be a...

Hey Ladies, I just need to rant to someone other than my SO who doesn't understand my dress dilemma, lol. So Saturday I had my bridal dinner to introduce my bridesmaids to each other and to look for...

Hey!! Did anyone decorate or use a backdrop for the dj booth? I just found out yesterday this was a thing and personally I’ve never seen people decorate their dj booth area but I’m curious is that...