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Megan
Dedicated September 2020

Early lunch reception. Will people be expecting Booze?

Megan, on January 2, 2020 at 6:57 AM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 17

I have only been to a couple wedding in my lifetime none of which were in the early-mid afternoon. Would you as a guest be disappointed if there was no booze at said wedding? I get why morning wedding receptions can get away without booze, but my wedding will be on a Sunday and will be early to mid afternoon, I am trying to be respectful of the fact it is a Sunday and most people work the next day.

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Latest activity by Jana, on April 15, 2020 at 3:04 PM
  • Kristen
    Master November 2020
    Kristen ·
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    You don't have to provide liquor but some folks will. I would do beer and wine if you can afford it but if not then state si on the invitation.
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  • Noelle
    Expert November 2019
    Noelle ·
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    I would offer some drinks such as mimosas, bloody Mary’s, beer and wine like pp said.
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  • VIP November 2021
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    You don’t have to have alcohol- if you do decide to maybe have light stuff like sangria, spritzers, just some champagne etc..
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  • N
    VIP September 2020
    Neeva ·
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    I know I would be bummed but that's not everyone. It really depends on your crowd.

    Like others said, you could also offer something easy or make it cash bar (let people know ahead of time).

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  • Marquita
    Dedicated January 2020
    Marquita ·
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    I wouldn’t be upset depending on the food you’re serving. I would like maybe mimosa or wine/beer though but if you don’t want to have any alcohol then don’t. Or make it a cash bar.
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  • Sarah
    Master September 2019
    Sarah ·
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    I think this is a know your crowd thing. Our crowd expects alcohol at weddings- period. Even morning weddings we’ve attended have had mimosa and Bloody Mary bars along with a few beer and wine choices. If you don’t want to serve alcohol you don’t have to but I don’t know that anyone could answer whether your guests expect it.
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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
    Gen ·
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    I do think people will expect it. Everyone drinks at weddings no matter what time it is lol. We had a Sunday afternoon wedding and just served wine
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    If you could offer at least wine or champagne, that might be nice. But if you don’t, I think it’ll be ok for a Sunday afternoon wedding.
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  • MOB So Cal
    January 2019
    MOB So Cal ·
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    Agree about this being very dependent on your guest list and local expectations. Like others, in our circle, a wedding (and pretty much any other celebration/gathering) includes alcohol. That's not to say everyone gets drunk by a long shot, but it's expected that minimally there will be wine and beer as beverage options. If you live in a highly religious community or some other circumstance where alcohol is much less prevalent, then a dry wedding probably won't be a surprise.

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  • Megan
    Dedicated September 2020
    Megan ·
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    Thanks for the response, I feel better about it now I was leaning towards not having it as majority of the people in both of our families don't drink. a couple people might be disappointed but oh well.

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  • Lisa
    Expert October 2021
    Lisa ·
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    I think people expect to have some sort of alcohol at weddings. We too are planning an early afternoon wedding and will have an open bar. Like others have said, I think it is a know your crowd thing. I'd suggest beer and wine, at a minimum.

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    I would expect alcohol at all weddings, morning, noon or night. Sure, the alcohol offered might change (mimosas and bloody marys in the morning, beer in the afternoon, full bar at night, etc.). But that's for our specific friend & family group, it really depends on what is typical with you and your guests.

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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
    Meghan ·
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    For a morning or afternoon wedding, I’d expect bloody Mary’s, mimosas, and light wine and beer.
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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I don't think providing liquor is a necessity
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  • Andrea
    Master January 2021
    Andrea ·
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    In this situation, I would offer at least champagne, wine and/or beer.

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  • Megan
    Dedicated September 2020
    Megan ·
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    Thanks Smiley smile We have decided against it. There will only be a handful of people that would drink anyways! It's not worth paying another 3k to appease Literally 3-5 people that drink.

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  • J
    Master October 2022
    Jana ·
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    I don't know anyone who drinks on Sundays except watching football. At a wedding regardless of the day, I would never expect alcohol to served before dinner hours.
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