Discussions I've participated in

So I received a gift in the mail yesterday from my boss! She must have found our registry and she bought us quite a few items. I am so grateful for them, she really didn't have to do that. I only...

Hi there - I'm getting married September 2023 and am running into some drama with my dad because of guest list. Our guest list is approximately 160, 2/3 being friends and 1/3 being family. We are very...

Hey everyone! My ex is not involved at all in my son's life. My son has my last name. Im due to get married next summer and I am having an internal battle. My last name is very unique and I am the...

Hi everyone. Has anyone cancelled a wedding a month beforehand? We don’t really want to but because of financial issues this month and whatnot, we think it might be best. We have sent out invites, had...

???? Was just thinking it’s so many hours is it proper etiquette to feed your vendors ?

My friend and his wife had a small wedding last year due to Covid and this fall they are having a larger celebration. He had mentioned a few weeks ago his wife's MOH dropped out after she received her...

I’m getting married in August. One of my guy friends original plus one isn’t able to come to the wedding and asked if he could bring his friend (who happens to be my ex). We are cordial and have the...

Hi ladies!! My wedding date was set for 10-24-2020. Unfortunately we decided to postpone. Now it's going to be 11-6-2021. I was reminded the other day that I have a little over six months until the...

Okay so, I've already discussed with my sister who is going to be my Matron of Honor about this but I'm lost at finding the right words to explain to my fiance about why I don't want our previously...

I am happy to say that we are finally done with the RSVP waiting game! Since I see a lot of questions on here regularly about decline rates, etc., I thought I would share our numbers. We invited 103...

Are you having a vow renewal with reception to follow? Or are you skipping the ceremony and having reception only? Are you wearing your wedding gown, etc..?

What do you think are the most difficult challenges in planning your wedding? And how did you overcome it? Let's discuss it here.

What are you choosing to not include in your wedding? Maybe it doesn't mean anything to you and fiance or it's an unnecessary expense your guests would not partake in.

I'm thinking about getting a photo booth. They are pricey though. So I'm wondering if it's worth the money. Also, how long should I rent one for if I do get one?

Certain songs? Reception styles? Gift types? Anything you have come across that is foreign to your circle.

Do I have to do a separate insert for the wedding website or is it ok to put on the invite. Everyone is computer savvy. Online RSVP and details all there.,,, Or can i Add a line to the invite: Kindly...

Last year bc of Covid we had a very small wedding or minimony. This year we are going ahead w the ‘big wedding’ and reception. But what do we call it? Marriage Blessing, Vow Renewal, Wedding Blessing...

Hi, does anyone have any advice? BACKSTORY (I apologize for the length, but I feel like the context is important. If you don’t want to read all that, I completely understand): Leah, a pseudonym for...

So I have a very ugly cry, like straight on ogre face! How in the world can I hold back some of that while walking down the isle? I already know my dad is going to cry cause he cried when I was...