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Originally slated to be married May 2nd, 2020- postponed to Aug 29th, 2020. Now we are debating having a small ceremony, and then having the reception next year.

I'm so bummed! I just found out that the honeymoon we were planning is off. My FH's boss and wife had offered to pay for it, and we were floored and very appreciative. It wasn't a crazy week long...

If you wanted to serve beer, wine, and a couple choice liquors, what would you choose? We've received a reasonable quote from a company and my fiance wants to lower the cost a little by not offering...

I’m looking at different venue options such as banquet halls which provide food options + utensils/plates/napkins etc. Or a place where the cost of venue is separate and I would need to find an...

Hi everyone, it’s been a little bit since I’ve posted, I’m two weeks out from the wedding and I’m starting to second guess a few things. This will be long winded so I apologize, I think it’s just a...

Hi everyone! So I'm in a predicament that I can't seem to get out of. I literally found my dream venue in California but it's a bit pricey. It's all inclusive, accommodations on-site, the works &...

Thinking about doing an open bar at my wedding and wondering if anyone has done this and how much you have paid? If you did something different please feel free to share what you did as well! There...

We are looking at a venue that only does on consumption (not my ideal but it is what it is) and we're planning on hosting for the evening. The venue has lodging on site with a sweet game room that...

What is everyone's thoughts on having people bring their own alcohol? I love my family and my fiance's family but they can drink until the sky turns green. I can't afford the vast variety they all...

Would love some opinions on this. We're having a small wedding and unfortunately not able to invite everyone we are friends with. The wedding size is what we have decided we wanted so we aren't sorry...

I need to vent, but at the same time I need advice. My dad and I have never been close. He’s always been in and out of my life and more out than in. Honestly, I have a lot of resentment towards him....

So last year a good friend of mine had a really small wedding (most invited to the reception weren't at the ceremony) and the reception was a potluck at their home. Everyone had a great time, the food...

I'm so utterly disappointed right now. I had agreed to let FH figure out the music with the understanding that we would just borrow the equipment from someone he knows. It's all he had to do, figure...

Should we do a package or a hosted on consumption? If we do package it would be $39 a person (so a total of $8,900). Or should we just do per drink? HELP PLEASE 🙏

Guys! We figured out our last name dilemma! We have been going back and forth on our last name change... it’s been so hard because there’s so many options. Do we take her last name... my last name.....

Has anyone ever had issues with Kays? Got engaged 3 weeks ago and my 10k “white gold” band is already turning a copper color. I’ve seen the purchase receipts and all to verify myself that it is indeed...