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Feeling disappointed about low Rsvps for Bridal Shower
Laura, on June 19, 2023 at 7:28 PM

I’m getting married in Sept. if this year. We’re at about 98 headcount as far as invitees for the wedding. My shower is being held in early July due to my family living 15 hours away and they are...

SandyZV, Jun 23, 2023 13
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First look
Pat, on June 6, 2023 at 4:42 PM

FOr anyone debating whether or not to do a first look .......... omg, do it! I am so thrilled with our pictures. Plus it was just me and hubby, so super emotional. AND ..... let's face it more time to...

Jacks, Aug 15, 2023 12
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Home improvement fund
Samantha, on June 6, 2023 at 4:52 PM

What are ways you were able to create a home improvement fund without a website taking a percentage of the amount given?

Justine, Mar 4, 2024 8
Cece
How important is a dress code?
Cece, on May 31, 2023 at 1:07 PM

How important is a dress code for your wedding? Will you be dictating guest attire (ie, formally requesting a certain formality, or asking guests to wear or not wear a certain color, etc.)? Or will...

Michelle, Jun 5, 2023 14
Lara
The dreaded past the rsvp date issue, suggestions?
Lara, on May 22, 2023 at 9:24 AM

Sigh. Ok, will give back Information first: Save The Dates sent out 7 months in advance. Wedding website created 5 months in advance. (SUPER informative too) All guests have access to website....

Lara, Jan 4, 2024 10
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Is this dress too white for a wedding?
Mireya, on May 18, 2023 at 3:53 PM

Hi, I'm Mireya and later this summer I'm attending a cousin's wedding. The dress code is rather casual, it's on a beach and it's boho-style. I'm not usually a dress person, so I only have a few...

Mcskipper, May 20, 2023 7
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Not inviting my brother's girlfriend to my wedding
Imani, on May 19, 2023 at 12:17 PM

I’m new here and in need of advice as I figure out my guest list for my small-ish sized wedding. I love my little brother but he is dating someone I don’t like. They’ve been together for over 4 years...

Imani, May 24, 2023 11
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Favors at a destination wedding?
Rhondayalex, on May 16, 2023 at 3:14 PM

Let me start by saying I know there are mixed feelings about wedding favors. I personally am fairly indifferent though lean towards them being a sweet gesture. Here's my dilemma: We are having a...

Rhondayalex, May 24, 2023 13
Christine
Color help! Ivory bride
Christine, on May 17, 2023 at 11:43 AM

Hi! I fell in love with an ivory dress ...our plan was to have charcoal grey suits and white shirts for the guys. I'm worried i will end up looking dirty. Dark Grey and white is all he's asked for so...

Peyton, May 17, 2023 3 1
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Hosting own Bridal Shower rsvp Contact
Jackie, on May 17, 2023 at 3:47 PM

Hi! Long story short, I’m throwing myself a bridal shower. Can I make myself the RSVP contact? I was also considering just using my MOH’s name and creating a different number/email on Google. I really...

Jacks, Jul 19, 2023 16 1
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Tent Draping on Poles
Hayley, on May 5, 2023 at 9:54 AM

My tent vendor offered to drape our tent poles for $20 each. Is this a good price? Are there more affordable ways to diy it? Thanks!

Lady, May 5, 2023 1
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Brunch day after, do we pay or make guests pay?
Anonymous, on May 2, 2023 at 5:28 PM

Ok. My fiancé and I are going back and forth on the topic of day after brunch. He is very against it. A. He says he’ll be exhausted and B. He doesn’t want to pay for it. I think we are close to 100k...

Teresa, May 13, 2023 7
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Belt or no belt?
Amanda, on April 27, 2023 at 9:14 PM

Help! I can’t decide if I should add a belt or not. The salesperson said it could change the whole loom of the dress… and it does! Would you pick no belt, small belt or big belt?

Lady, May 2, 2023 15
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Lodging Accomodations-tacky or not?
Nicole, on April 28, 2023 at 6:54 AM

Hi! One of the venues I am considering consists of various cabins on a lake. The venue is very DIY. The only upfront cost would be to rent all of the cabins for the entire weekend. My question is,...

Lady, May 2, 2023 17
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Decision about no alcohol at wedding is causing issues! Help!
Jenna, on April 29, 2023 at 9:33 AM

I’m getting married in June of this year. My fiancé and I originally agreed to not have alcohol at our wedding. We felt it was unnecessary since neither of us will be drinking and avoid the extra cost...

Sagan, May 15, 2023 20
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My bridesmaid is pregnant... am i being fair here?
Ellie, on May 1, 2023 at 8:21 AM

Hi all, So I have a bit of a dilemma! My fiancé's sister is a bridesmaid in our wedding, and she's recently announced she's pregnant. I'm over the moon for her, especially as she didn't think she...

Cassidy, May 5, 2023 7
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i want to cry
Alexandria, on April 11, 2023 at 1:58 AM

My matron of honor has been my bestfriend for years… recently she had a baby and he is the best in this world I would do anything for them both… She has been super distant, disrespecting me in any way...

Peyton, Apr 19, 2023 8
Brittany
Ceremony Exit "props"
Brittany, on April 5, 2023 at 9:53 AM

So when exiting your ceremony, everyone is familiar with the rice throwing of the past, and the new alternatives like bubbles, biodegradable confetti, etc. Has anyone skipped this altogether and had...

Kimberly, Apr 23, 2023 15
Amanda
Plated vs buffet
Amanda, on March 30, 2023 at 11:57 AM

I wish there was a poll function on Wedding Wire, but as a wedding guest, do you prefer a plated dinner or a buffet dinner? Is this something that matters a lot to you as a guest?

Hanna, Mar 31, 2023 16
Amanda
Assigned Seating or Self Seating?
Amanda, on March 30, 2023 at 2:09 PM

As a guest, do you prefer assigned seating or self seating at a wedding reception?

Michelle, Mar 31, 2023 13
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