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Amanda
Just Said Yes June 2024

Assigned Seating or Self Seating?

Amanda, on March 30, 2023 at 2:09 PM Posted in Planning 0 13
As a guest, do you prefer assigned seating or self seating at a wedding reception?

13 Comments

Latest activity by Michelle, on March 31, 2023 at 7:50 PM
  • MaryEllen
    Expert October 2016
    MaryEllen ·
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    Definitely assigned tables, not necessarily seats
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  • Amanda
    Just Said Yes June 2024
    Amanda ·
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    Oh I meant tables! Thank you!
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  • K
    Super September 2023
    Kimberly ·
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    Assigned is usually recommended because otherwise guests have to take time finding a table, and there’s a risk of parties getting split up or overcrowding a table so they can all sit together, etc.
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  • Taylor
    VIP October 2022
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    I would suggest assigning tables
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  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
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    As a guest, I totally prefer assigned tables! People don't usually seat themselves efficiently, and there'd be a higher chance that someone will end up at a table with people they don't know if all other tables fill up. By having assigned tables, guests don't have to worry about rushing to the reception area to try to grab a good seat before everyone else gets there first.
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  • Michael
    Rockstar October 2023
    Michael ·
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    Is it okay to move to another table with assigned seating? It does sound best to do assigned seating, at least to start with.

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  • Alyssa
    Super October 2023
    Alyssa ·
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    Assign tables, adults can figure seats out pretty well one they have the table assigned.
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  • Caitlin
    Devoted January 2023
    Caitlin ·
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    Assigned seating always. I have awful social anxiety unless I'm around people I know and finding my own seating sounds like a personal nightmare

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  • C
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    Other than visiting briefly when another guest is up dancing or something, no. Other than something like that, your table is your table.

    OP, it is always, always better to have assigned tables or seats. Open seating is a nightmare of people saving seats for others, racing for tables, and generally making guests uncomfortable which is the opposite of what you want as a host.

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  • L
    Lady ·
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    Assigned seating all the way

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  • Cece
    Rockstar October 2023
    Cece ·
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    Definitely assigned seating!
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  • Emily
    Dedicated August 2025
    Emily ·
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    Assigned all the way - I think open seating would make me too anxious lol
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  • Michelle
    Rockstar December 2022
    Michelle Online ·
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    Assigned tables always, let guests pick pick their chair.
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