Discussions I've participated in

My sister and her boyfriend just got engaged after the first of the year and mentioned that they want to have a local (Americanized) Chinese restaurant cater. Would this appeal to you if you were a...

My fiancé and I are getting married in about 6 months and due to COVID, we’ve decided to downsize our guest list from 200 to 100. The issue is that we’ve already sent out save-the-dates because we...

Hey all!! Hope everyone is having an amazing start to the new year. Me, not so much...we are dealing with some death in my family and I could use some lighthearted fun stories! So! How did you all...

I’m not sure how to handle this situation. My future FIL is always negative about our wedding. He doesn’t talk about our wedding plans with my fiancé, but will often call my future SIL to make...

Hi everyone. I have been racking my brain for the last few days on this idea. I am trying to find a non-gendered way to refer to wedding party members. We have mixed genders on both sides. I've been...

Well, I am at the point where I am thinking of dropping out of a wedding party where I am maid of honor. The bride's my baby cousin, much more like a sister than anything since her parents, my aunt...

I’ve been engaged since 12/31/2019. And we planned to have our wedding on our dating anniversary on 06/14/2021. My friend got engaged on Christmas of this year(2020). She decided to have her wedding...

My wedding date is October 2022 and it will be in Vermont (I don’t live in VT). I see a lot of people moving their dates around and vendors now booking for 2021 & 2022. I honestly would like to...

My fiancé and i have decided to postpone our wedding T^T I'm feeling pretty heartbroken over it right now. financially everything has been messed up as well as were concerned about the safety of our...

My fiancé just told me he bought a ring today and it is currently being custom made but that there was a surprise with it. He didn't want to get a diamond because they are visually worth nothing and...

I’m struggling with how to tell one of my bridesmaids I no longer want her to stand up in our wedding. We’ve been friends for about 9 years and we’re always together. Once my fiancé and I started...

Hi all, I could use some guidance or insight. Or maybe just support. My parents are absolutely terrified about my wedding turning into a super spreader event like the Maine wedding that made news....

Do you all think it’s ok to put on the invitations only wear certain colors??? I was told it was a bit much!!! That’s what I want though...

A couple who married the same day as my husband and I, now have COVID. They tested positive. My mom just called me to tell me the news. I know this couple, they went ahead with their wedding plans,...

Okay, over the 2 years of planning I've had 5 bridesmaids and 5 groomsmen. I lost my maid of honor after a fall out, then a bridesmaid dropped out because of financial reasons. Fine. Whatever. I...

A guy I went to high school with posted on Facebook that he plans on officiating his friend's wedding. The state where the wedding is taking place only allows government or religious officials to...

I am suppose to go to davids bridal tomorrow at 1:30 to try to find my dream dress....meanwhile FH is off getting drunk and wont answer my calls or texts. Well he answered 2 of my so many calls and I...

Hello everyone, first time posting on here. We just started planning for our wedding on 5/21/2021 and need some help with our hashtag. My names is Elizabeth Nyambura and his is John Mares.

According to CNBC, the average wedding in 2019 costed $33,900! If any of you feel comfortable sharing, where is all your funding coming from? Parents? Gradparents? In laws? Loans? Credit card?...

We're doing just beer and wine for our reception. What is better for beer: cans or bottles?