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Your ceremony and celebrating your love will be the BEST part of your day! Your guests will be talking about it for days...in a good way! Officiant Heidi from Love Story Vows creates Personal and Unforgettable Ceremonies for All! She'll help you create a romantic, fun, and memorable ceremony and she writes your personal Love Story!

Her ceremonies are always inclusive and LGBTQIA+ friendly! Your ceremony can be as unique as the two of you. Heidi will feel like your “cool” Auntie, who will answer every wedding question, help keep you calm and be there to make sure your wedding ceremony is awesome! She creates customized, fun (not cheesy) and personal ceremonies for couples in San Diego County, Laguna, Temecula, Palm Springs, and Idyllwild. She also goes to destination locations like Big Bear Lake, Lake Arrowhead, Santa Barbara, Big Sur, Yosemite, Joshua Tree, Tahoe, Sequoia and out of state.

Services Offered
Heidi is an ordained wedding officiant. She will create your wedding ceremony, and write your Love Story. You will have unlimited communication to help you. She will make sure you're calm on the wedding day. She will share your wonderful ceremony with you two and your guests on the wedding day. She will sign your marriage license and get it back to the county Clerk.

She officiates spiritual, non-religious, non-denominational, Pagan, Agnostic, Buddhist, Earth-based, and Unitarian events. She will do wedding ceremonies with no mention of god or a little "shout out" to God for Grandma, Heidi also does vow renewals, and elopements.She's "married" over 650 couples since 2016!

Whether you want fun, simple, elegant, spiritual, intimate, or even a stunning outdoor adventure ceremony, it's created for the two of you! She's a professional, ordained non-denominational officiant through the Universal Life Church and The Church of Spiritual Humanism.

Experience
As a former wedding planner, she will make this journey simple and fun! With years of experience in public speaking, her ASMR voic, theatre, voice-over work in radio, and TV, and her love of writing, she has unique qualifications to make this an easy and fun experience for you! Your ceremony should reflect both of you. It should also tell your personal story. Her ceremonies are never long and boring! She loves what she does...taking care of her couples and doing awesome ceremonies!

Her world's filled with love and laughter! She loves going on adventures, sharing weekly "date days" with her husband, and spending an amazing day with her couples! Sometimes she gets to do both, Alan's an experienced, professional, calm and brilliant, award-winning wedding photographer! They do elopements too, Google Alan and Heidi Elopements for more info.

Heidi and her husband are still madly in love and best friends, they celebrated their 25th Anniversary in June! They share their lives with an adorable Pomeranian named Pilot and a baby parakeet named Griffin. They love hiking in the mountains, walking on the beach, alternating between action adventure or romantic comedy movies...maybe a little non-fiction (they don't choose sides). Love trying new restuarants and coffee places especially with live music and allows dogs!

It's all about you two and your Love Story, so let's create the ceremony, you never knew you could have!

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Frequently asked questions

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$185

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Buddhist
Earth-Based
No Denomination
Pagan
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

AK
AZ
AR
CA
CO
CT
DE
HI
MA
MT
NM
NC
OH
OR
PA
RI
UT
WA
WY

What languages do you speak?

English

Reviews of Love Story Vows

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Couples rave that Heidi from Love Story Vows crafts deeply personal, joyful ceremonies using questionnaires and unique rituals like handfasting. She’s calm, responsive, professional, and often steps in last-minute. She also handles legal paperwork and goes above and beyond, creating a stress-free, family-like experience.

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Couples rave that Heidi from Love Story Vows crafts deeply personal, joyful ceremonies using questionnaires and unique rituals like handfasting. She’s calm, responsive, professional, and often steps in last-minute. She also handles legal paperwork and goes above and beyond, creating a stress-free, family-like experience.

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Monica Sent on 11/09/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Our Favorite Person!!!

Book Heidi ASAP!!! It’s hard to think that there could be any better person to officiate a wedding than her. She was such a bright presence on our wedding day, the days leading up to it, and still now, weeks later. She’s prompt and very detail oriented, making sure to get all you & your partners personality into the ceremony. She’s also so very kind and supportive, all our nerves were gone and there was only excitement because of all her advice and encouragement. All our vendors adored her as well as she is an absolute PRO and is literally just the sweetest and most authentic person I’ve met! Truly, I could go on and on about why she’s the best for this job, but long story short- she is love - and that’s what you need in your wedding day. Our ceremony is still my favorite part of our wedding and I cannot wait for the video & photos, she made our dreams come true! 🩵
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Madeline Sent on 05/13/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Heidi and Alan are amazing!

Everyone needs an Auntie Heidi for their wedding! She made the ceremony the easiest part of wedding planning. If I was ever stressed or unsure about something, Heidi had a solution. She is so knowledgeable and professional and really went the extra mile to make us feel at ease. If you need someone to help you navigate the world of wedding planning, manage those crazy relatives, and remind you to be excited, not nervous, you need Heidi! Her style of officiating is so fun and joyful, and she was able to tailor a ceremony that felt so unique and so us. Her husband, Alan, is also an amazing coordinator and photographer, and together they made our day so special and seamless. We can’t thank them enough!
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David Sent on 03/25/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful Words at our Winter Wedding!

Heidi at Love Story Vows created a wonderful wedding ceremony on our big day!
My wife and I got married last December in the beautiful city of Redlands. We were lucky enough to run across Love Story Vows where we met Heidi who has a lovely personality, loves love, and actually strives to make a connection with her couples.
We spoke with her on several occasions leading up to the wedding getting to know each other. Throughout the whole process she made herself available for any and all questions we had. We truly appreciated that. It was that connection (and the way she orchestrates the ceremony) made the having her as our officiant that much more meaningful. We made the right choice going with Love Story Vows!
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Jennifer Sent on 12/14/2025
5 out of 5 rating

We love our Aunt Heidi

We truly cannot say enough wonderful things about Heidi. From the very beginning, she created a ceremony that was deeply personal, meaningful, and completely tailored to us. Every part of it felt intentional and heartfelt, and so many of our guests commented on how beautiful and unique it was.

On the wedding day, when there was a moment of panic about our handfasting cords, Heidi was calm, prepared, and already in action. While the original cords were found at the hotel and brought to the venue, she also went home to get backup cords just in case. Knowing she was willing to do whatever it took to keep the ceremony intact meant everything to us.

Heidi brought such a grounding, supportive presence to the day. She even offered her hematite bracelet as a precaution to keep unwanted spiritual energy away, which perfectly reflects how thoughtful, intuitive, and caring she is. Nothing felt rushed or stressful with her involved.

Heidi is far more than a wedding officiant. She became part of our family through this experience, and we lovingly refer to her as our Aunt Heidi. We are beyond grateful for her, and we would wholeheartedly recommend her to anyone looking for an officiant who truly cares and goes above and beyond.
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Teresa Sent on 10/18/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Thank You Auntie Heidi

We just wanted to say Thank You for all your guidance and for our beautiful ceremony. We are grateful that we are part of your family now, among all the other couples you united thru marriage. Our guests enjoyed and was amazed of the hand fasting ceremony, it was truly unique. You are highly recommended. Again, Thank You.
Nichole
Nichole Sent on 06/19/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing!

Heidi was the most amazing professional who felt like family the day of our wedding. she made the process so easy and less stressful for us. She has all the knowledge and would help us with whatever questions came up at whatever time of the day. The day of the wedding she arrived early came in to mu suite and was just supportive and calmed me down from the nerves. She has an amazing beautiful heart and is truly just a genuine person Thank you Heidi
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Tiffany Sent on 12/11/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Heidi was so incredible!!!


Heidi is the Absolute BEST!!! We are so grateful to have met her and have her officiate our wedding! She was so incredible from the beginning of our journey together till our wedding day, and even after. She was so kind and personable and enjoyed laughing with us. She is so down to earth and so easy to talk to about everything. She captured our love story so beautifully that we couldn’t stop smiling during our ceremony. All our guests complimented how amazing our ceremony was, that it was so fun and romantic and like nothing they have ever experienced!

Heidi recommended the Hand Fasting for our ceremony and we are so thankful she did because it was something so special and unique that we will cherish forever! Heidi made writing our vows so easy as she sent out questionnaires to each of us and it was exciting to see what each of us wrote about one another during our ceremony in our “Love Story.” She even takes the stress out of filing the marriage certificate with the courts and personally does it herself so my husband and I could enjoy our honeymoon without that stress!

We were so thankful to her and her husband Alan Merrigan who was our photographer (Love Story Photography) as they made our experience SO easy and stress free! They are the kindest people in the world and make the perfect team! Heidi and Alan, we cannot thank you enough for everything you did for us and making our ceremony and wedding everything we ever wished for and more!!!!
Camelia
Camelia Sent on 12/10/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Heidi is the best!

We are so happy that we chose Heidi as our officiant for our wedding. She blew our expectations out of the water. People were coming up to us after the ceremony asking us how long we had known Heidi because she told our love story so beautifully! Everyone was complimenting us on how fun and romantic our ceremony was, and that it was unlike other weddings they had been to. We loved the ceremony too! She had us both tell her our love story separately in questionnaires before the wedding and it was so fun to find out what my husband had said to her at the altar! It was very sweet. Heidi is super personable and easy to talk to, which put us both at ease as well. She is super professional, but she is also kind. She checked in with us several times before the wedding and I feel like she really got to know us well. She's an expert at what she does! We were also happy because it had been our dream to do a handfasting ceremony, which she was happy to incorporate! It was the most wonderful and perfect ceremony we could have asked for. Heidi is a delight!
Kassandra
Kassandra Sent on 06/08/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Absolutely wonderful experience!

We recommend Heidi 1000%! She was absolutely wonderful!! We are so beyond thankful to have met her! She was the perfect officiant for my husband and I. She made our ceremony incredibly special and catered our ceremony perfectly to who my husband and I are and what we wanted! Not only is she incredibly professional but she has the most beautiful energy! We felt like we had known her for years! She was so patient with us and made sure our ceremony would be everything we wanted it to be. My friends and family absolutely LOVED our ceremony and kept asking us how we found Heidi. My husband and I wanted a romantic and fun ceremony and Heidi delivered just that!!
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Doug Sent on 06/08/2024
5 out of 5 rating

A very personal wedding

Heidi helped through every step of creating a very personalized wedding. She has created such a fantastic "menu" of options, and helped us to wright our very own story. The ceremony was so sweet.
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Awards

189
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2024 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2023 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2022 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2021 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2020 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2019 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2018 Winner

Professional Network & Endorsements

4 Endorsements
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Simply put, I really enjoy working with Heidi! I've worked with her since 2006 and have always found her to be upbeat and positive, which really helps with weddings as there can be a certain amount of pressure to make sure everything is as close to perfect as you can get. And that's where Heidi shines: she's calm and even-keeled and she listens to your thoughts, concerns, questions, and addresses them in a manner that helps you to feel calm and less stressed about not only the ceremony, but the whole wedding planning process. Just one call to her and you'll know exactly what I'm talking about. She's one of the best!

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Heidi from Love Story Vows is an exceptional person, colleague, and professional! I have known Heidi for over 20 years! And it wasn't difficult to choose my wedding officiant for myself and my husband. Heidi was our first choice! And what an amazing ceremony it was! She helped us incorporate our kids, make it unique, and certainly brought laughter and tears to everyone! She helped me stay calm during the planning process. She stayed in touch daily. And she even stayed with us all night to celebrate! Thank you Heidi....so so much!

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I have worked with many officiants throughout my time as an event coordinator. Heidi with Love Story Vows has been my favorite. She makes it a priority to cater to the couples every need. She is attentive, kind and professional. You can see how passionate she is about what she does from the first conversation. I would highly recommend Heidi to anyone looking for her services. She and her husband are both very involved in this industry and definitely know what they are doing.

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