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Christopher Shelley
Christopher Shelley
Owner

14 years in business

We speak English

1 team member

Illuminating Ceremonies is a wedding officiant based in New York City. I'd like to be the most accessible vendor for you to work with. For every wedding I'm lucky enough to officiate, I try to create more personal, enjoyable, funny, meaningful, and celebratory ceremonies than most guests have ever seen. It's a high bar, but I aim for it every time.

I'm a Certified Life-Cycle Celebrant. I can legalize marriages all around the country. I'm the author of Best. Ceremony. Ever (The Countryman Press/WW Norton). I'm a member of the NY chapter of the National Speakers Association. I have spoken at industry conferences, including Wedding MBA in Las Vegas, WedProCon in Cincinnati, and Midwest DJs Live in Milwaukee.

For four years in a row, I appeared on 'The Rachael Ray Show' on Valentine's Day, officiating ceremonies in front of a massive national audience. In April 2014, I appeared on Joan Rivers' reality show, Joan Knows Best, attending a memorial service for her dog Max. Not many people can say that and have it be true.

Please note: if you contact me (and I am asking this on behalf of ALL wedding vendors), please let me know where and at what time your wedding will take place. Thank you.

Pricing

$800 starting price
$1,100 average price
Simple Chris - for Elopers Only
$500 / starting price
Adisement on Rituals/Etiquette
Coordination with other vendors
A simple, non-personalized ceremony
My travel to your venue and back
My signature on your license
Most popular
The Full Chris
$800 / starting price
Writing your ceremony, including a full LOVE STORY
Advisement on Rituals
Processional/recessional planning
Coordination with the other vendors
Multiple drafts of the ceremony
Rehearsal within 2 hours of the ceremony
My signature on your license
My travel to your venue and back

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FAQ

Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Ceremony Rehearsal

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$200

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$200

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baptist
Buddhist
Catholic
Hindu
Islam
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
Mormon
No Denomination
Pagan
Presbyterian
Quaker
Taoist

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

AZ
CO
DC
KY
NJ
NY
OH

What languages do you speak?

French

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Chris is highly praised by multiple couples for his exceptional officiating services that create personalized and heartwarming ceremonies. His detailed questionnaire and ability to weave couples' love stories into ceremonies have received high acclaim, resulting in ceremonies that are engaging, sentimental, and joyful. Guests and vendors alike have commended Chris for his professionalism, humor, and ability to make each ceremony unique and special, making him a popular choice for couples seeking a memorable and unforgettable wedding day experience.

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Chris is highly praised by multiple couples for his exceptional officiating services that create personalized and heartwarming ceremonies. His detailed questionnaire and ability to weave couples' love stories into ceremonies have received high acclaim, resulting in ceremonies that are engaging, sentimental, and joyful. Guests and vendors alike have commended Chris for his professionalism, humor, and ability to make each ceremony unique and special, making him a popular choice for couples seeking a memorable and unforgettable wedding day experience.

Elina
Elina Sent on 02/21/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing officiant and speaker

Chris officiated our 1/20/24 wedding. He did a fantastic job, people laughed, people cried, and everyone asked about him afterwards. He came highly recommended on just about every website we found him on, and for good reason! His process is great, he's asks the right questions and wants feedback along the way. He wanted to make sure our ceremony had the vibe we wanted. He was punctual and was flexible with the plan, making sure everyone knew what they were doing. Would highly recommend his services.
Jack
Jack Sent on 01/02/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Incredibly Personal Ceremony

We were overjoyed to have Chris as our officiant! He did a phenomenal job at creating a personalized ceremony that centered around our story while still ensuring that . We loved the result and received multiple compliments about the ceremony from our friends and family.

My wife and I enjoyed the process of working with Chris almost as much as the result. If you are looking for a ceremony that tells your love story, has the right amount of levity, but also has the professionalism and structure behind the scenes to make it seem "effortless" then he's perfect. We are among the last of our friends to get married, but would recommend him to anyone looking for an officiant!

Thanks Chris!
Jack
JC Calingo
Jc Calingo Sent on 11/27/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Unforgettable Officiant: Chris Made Our Wedding Perfect!

We had the absolute pleasure of having Chris as our wedding officiant, and we couldn’t have asked for a better experience. From the moment we started preparing, he was professional, thoughtful, and incredibly easy to work with. On the big day, Chris truly stole the show with his humor and storytelling—our guests, including my family, couldn’t stop raving about how engaging and heartfelt he was. He made our ceremony feel unique and special, and his delivery was flawless. Chris absolutely crushed it, and we’re so grateful for the role he played in making our day unforgettable!
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Christopher is an excellent officiant! He brings his charming, joyful personality to his work and it's evident he gives 100% to every client. There is no such thing as a boring or dry wedding when Christopher is the Officiant!

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Christopher is a suburb choice as an officiant for your wedding. I guarantee that you will have a unique and fun wedding ceremony with his creative and lively touch.

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Christopher really is illuminating! He is by far the funniest person I know and there won't be a face in the crowd without a smile on their face when Chris performs a ceremony. He is charming, polite and the best listener I know. He will deliver a ceremony that would surely put a smile on even "Aunty Betty that disapproves of this union" face.... Highly recommend.

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