About
Illuminating Ceremonies is a wedding officiant based in New York City. I'd like to be the most accessible vendor for you to work with. For every wedding I'm lucky enough to officiate, I try to create more personal, enjoyable, funny, meaningful, and celebratory ceremonies than most guests have ever seen. It's a high bar, but I aim for it every time.
I'm a Certified Life-Cycle Celebrant. I can legalize marriages all around the country. I'm the author of Best. Ceremony. Ever (The Countryman Press/WW Norton). I'm a member of the NY chapter of the National Speakers Association. I have spoken at industry conferences, including Wedding MBA in Las Vegas, WedProCon in Cincinnati, and Midwest DJs Live in Milwaukee.
For four years in a row, I appeared on 'The Rachael Ray Show' on Valentine's Day, officiating ceremonies in front of a massive national audience. In April 2014, I appeared on Joan Rivers' reality show, Joan Knows Best, attending a memorial service for her dog Max. Not many people can say that and have it be true.
Please note: if you contact me (and I am asking this on behalf of ALL wedding vendors), please let me know where and at what time your wedding will take place. Thank you.
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Reviews of Illuminating Ceremonies/Christopher Shelley
Review summary
Reviewers rave that the officiant crafts deeply personalized, funny, and heartfelt ceremonies using a detailed questionnaire and collaborative script. He’s professional, punctual, flexible, handles rehearsals/vendors, and engages guests throughout. Many called it the best or most memorable ceremony they’d attended.
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Christopher is an excellent officiant! He brings his charming, joyful personality to his work and it's evident he gives 100% to every client. There is no such thing as a boring or dry wedding when Christopher is the Officiant!
Christopher is a suburb choice as an officiant for your wedding. I guarantee that you will have a unique and fun wedding ceremony with his creative and lively touch.
Christopher really is illuminating! He is by far the funniest person I know and there won't be a face in the crowd without a smile on their face when Chris performs a ceremony. He is charming, polite and the best listener I know. He will deliver a ceremony that would surely put a smile on even "Aunty Betty that disapproves of this union" face.... Highly recommend.