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Shania
Bartender
Shania, on February 16, 2022 at 10:06 AM

Having a friend bartend my wedding, thoughts on pay. We live in Texas and our wedding is in Montana, so we are buying there hotel room, they bought flights. We are having an open bar and we are...

Gracey, Feb 20, 2022 9 685 3
Bethany
Grazing table for Dinner, what about a cocktail hour?
Bethany, on December 1, 2019 at 8:30 PM

So I'm in the process of planning my wedding, and I my goal when building a menu for dinner was about easy, hassle free foods that would only require silverware if it was preferred by the individual....

Michelle, Feb 19, 2022 6 2,291
Jocelyn
Brides that didn't do open bar?
Jocelyn, on September 11, 2019 at 5:14 PM

So we for sure won't be doing open bar since ky,venue doesn't allow outside liquor AND they would charge 30 dollars a head for 5 hours of just open beer and wine. However, my wedding package includes...

Sherry, Feb 18, 2022 45 3,844
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Mocktail Ideas?
Claire, on February 17, 2022 at 9:29 AM

Ideas for mock tails? We will have a full open bar but would like to have our signature “cocktails” be non alcoholic so all of our guests, including those who don’t drink, can have something fancy and...

Claire, Feb 17, 2022 5 755 3
Lily
Fun Problem: More Money!
Lily, on February 16, 2022 at 3:00 PM

So, we have sort of a fun problem that has popped up: we have about $10K additional to spend on the wedding. This is basically an additional gift from my parents, who apparently put aside the...

Michelle, Feb 17, 2022 19 701
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Taco wedding
Sydney, on February 11, 2022 at 1:10 PM

So I’ve seen lots of Pinterest taco bars for weddings. I think it’s a great idea. I love tacos. Two of my closest friends told me I probably shouldn’t do the taco bar because -well we all know what...

Maddie, Feb 17, 2022 10 848
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Bulk flatware, plates, etc. Where did you purchase from?
Spark, on February 15, 2022 at 8:09 PM

I need steak knives too. Also what did you do with them after wedding? 😁😁

Pam, Feb 16, 2022 3 197
Dana
2022
Dana, on February 15, 2022 at 2:32 PM

Hey all who isn't having dancing at your wedding? My fiancee and I don't like to dance and it's mostly going to be friends instead of family at our wedding. Any ideas to not have a boring reception?...

Amanda, Feb 16, 2022 8 664
Cortney
Creative Cocktail Name for my Dog!
Cortney, on February 13, 2022 at 6:25 PM

Hi! I am getting married this september and we want to incorporate our puppy Golden Retriever into the wedding since she is not allowed on sight. We have a signature cocktail that is vodka, lemonade...

devotedlydavis, Feb 15, 2022 8 2,480
Aw
Venue Regret
Aw, on February 10, 2022 at 6:50 PM

Chose our venue before it was completely renovated. Now having a little wedding venue regret. Don’t love the low, drop ceilings. Worried it will mess up all the photos? Any tips on distracting from...

Samantha, Feb 14, 2022 11 992
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Changing Wedding colors ?? Help!!!
Sydney, on February 14, 2022 at 9:49 AM

My favorite color is blue but I don’t see that in my Wedding vision. My wedding is in September and my maids are hassling me to go ahead and rechoose my colors. Originally, I opted for terracotta,...

Sydney, Feb 14, 2022 4 510
Michelle
Dj sound level
Michelle, on February 11, 2022 at 5:56 PM

Is this a concern you are addressing during interviews or after you have signed the contract? For example, while we do have a good size dancing crowd, an equal number don’t dance and prefer to mingle....

Samantha, Feb 14, 2022 2 333
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Food options
Sydney, on February 13, 2022 at 11:17 AM

I have 56-58 people. Would two entrees, three sides, one appetizer, and two desserts be too much for them? I also have the option for two entrees, two sides, and two desserts. How much food is too...

Candace, Feb 13, 2022 6 643 3
Kelly
After Party Needed????
Kelly, on February 7, 2022 at 11:26 AM

Hi all! I need some advice. My wedding ceremony and reception are taking place at the same venue (100 person max wedding) and I can only have the reception until 9pm. Usually I’d be okay with this (bc...

Orianna, Feb 13, 2022 25 3,200 4
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Do i need a throw bouquet?
Mrsn2020, on November 21, 2019 at 12:55 PM

It's only $25 for a throw bouquet from my florist but I read an article that said I could just use one of my bridesmaids or MOH bouquets for the bouquet toss. Do I really need to buy a throw...

Michelle, Feb 13, 2022 13 1,214 2
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Steak with disposables?
Spark, on February 13, 2022 at 8:02 AM

Doing buffet (served). When selecting menu, i picked steak and didn't think about this in advance.... steak and disposable don't work!! Tacky!? What did you do or are planning to do?

Michelle, Feb 13, 2022 2 679
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Fun Add-ons?
JA, on February 11, 2022 at 1:56 PM

Looking for some inspo for fun activities to have at the wedding! We want to do a bounce house/Inflatable boxing/Inflatable jousting, but our venue is very hesitant about those ideas. Looking for...

bevbabe, Feb 12, 2022 9 803 1
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Unique wedding touches
Amanda, on February 3, 2022 at 11:02 AM

What are some unique things you are doing at your wedding? One of the things we want to do is after the ceremony we want to go and just take a moment for ourselves. No cameras, no wedding party, and...

Tasha, Feb 12, 2022 21 1,161 1
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Who sits where at the reception? Group by family or generation?
Vanessa, on February 7, 2022 at 7:52 PM

Both my fiance and I have big (ish) extended families... aunts & uncles, cousins, cousins' kids. So do I group tables by putting the cousins (and their kiddos) at the same tables together, and the...

Tasha, Feb 12, 2022 8 799
Kevin
Kids items at wedding
Kevin, on August 11, 2021 at 8:09 PM

So we are inviting kids to our wedding as we have lots of little nieces and nephews and our cousins kids as well as some the little ones of those in our wedding party. There will be about 20 kids...

Megan Flanagan, Feb 11, 2022 7 588 2
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