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Cj Wallace
Unsure of when to do first dance or toast at reception
Cj Wallace, on May 21, 2019 at 4:24 PM

My FH and I are having a cocktail hour (time to take pics) and plated dinner reception. I'm torn if we should mingle during dinner and then kickoff the reception with first dance and toasts. Im...

Jess, May 22, 2019 9 1,104
Jodi
Picnic menu
Jodi, on May 21, 2019 at 5:26 PM

Hi all! We are very laid back couple and are thinking about a picnic for the reception. There will only be about 20 people at the wedding (family and very close friends). Any suggestions on menu? ...

CDickman, May 21, 2019 14 2,598
Samantha
Chair Cover Alternatives
Samantha, on May 17, 2019 at 2:27 PM

So my venue offers the standard burgundy banquet chairs for the reception with chair covers as an additional price, as well as different styled chairs. Unfortunately none of the options are in budget...

Michelle, May 21, 2019 15 2,422
Sara
diy open bar = insanity + math?
Sara, on May 20, 2019 at 2:42 PM

Hi all! I need some help with alcohol! So we have hired bartenders and will be providing the alcohol that they will serve. Our wedding will be Saturday, June 15, in New York, with 115-120 adult...

Haley, May 20, 2019 10 1,225
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What wines will be served at your wedding?
Martha, on May 14, 2019 at 9:53 AM

Hello! What wines and beer will be served at your wedding?

Paula, May 20, 2019 12 1,465
Daiana
Wedding cake
Daiana, on April 8, 2019 at 1:01 PM

How many tiers are you having and how much are you paying for the cake? This is my next step.

Paula, May 20, 2019 75 1,179
Tara
Hashtag suggestions
Tara, on May 14, 2019 at 3:08 AM

I’ve seen a lot of these posts and figured I might as well ask for hashtag help too. My name is Tara Ewing and his is Alek Barragan (I’m planning on taking his last name) and we’re getting married...

Rachel, May 18, 2019 10 215
Shannon
Is $1000-$1500 too cheap for an Open bar?
Shannon, on May 8, 2019 at 12:23 PM

Hi Gals! I've been looking at several forums on open bars and now I'm scared that I'm budgeting too low for an open bar. I've budgeted $****! My venue has a bartender included with all the...

Rachel, May 17, 2019 9 1,775
Kelsey
Amount of Songs on Playlist
Kelsey, on May 16, 2019 at 2:37 PM

For those of you that have done a playlist through Spotify or something similar for the reception, how many songs did you put on the playlist? Our reception will be 4-5 hours and I’m not sure how many...

Jolie, May 17, 2019 7 3,176 1
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Black Tie Reception with Food Stations and Seating Chart (help!!!)
Anna, on May 16, 2019 at 7:51 PM

My fiancé and I have always been set on an elegant black tie wedding - as fancy as possible. Unfortunately we got basically coerced/tricked by both parents (cost) and our catering company...

D, May 17, 2019 5 2,165
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Separate room for dance floor
Neisha-Lynae, on May 21, 2018 at 10:32 PM

Hey guys. I'm looking at venue stage and my fiance and I found one place we love. Only obvious down side is the dance floor is in a completely separate room from the reception area. Just curious if...

Kelly, May 17, 2019 8 452 1
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Duet songs help
Christine, on December 16, 2018 at 10:29 AM

Ok ladies, I could use some help. We are looking for a nice duet that we would use for our first dance, the problem? All I can find is the typical what you would think of endless love, from this...

Catherine, May 16, 2019 12 283
Laura
Publix Catering
Laura, on May 10, 2019 at 5:53 PM

Has anyone every used Publix for catering for their reception?

Pang, May 16, 2019 3 1,491
Susan
Licensed bartender vs bartending 'service'
Susan, on May 16, 2019 at 10:24 AM

Hi! My fiance and I are having a backyard wedding on his family's private property. I want to have bartenders, but I want to know what the difference is LEGALLY between hiring people I know who are...

Bride2020, May 16, 2019 7 1,779
Katy
Is a budget of $5,000 too small? Food options?
Katy, on May 5, 2019 at 10:26 PM

Hi Ladies. How is everyone doing tonight? So, my Father decided to help me with my wedding by sending me money (for a second time)...the first one didn't work out & he was out 13,000 but I...

Dana, May 16, 2019 8 1,210
Margaret
Bouquet toss with prize?
Margaret , on April 3, 2019 at 11:21 AM

So my FH and I really want to the bouquet and garter toss. We don’t have a lot of single friends or family. Also I’ve been reading how it’s somewhat looked down upon now and days... but I was thinking...

Margaret, May 16, 2019 30 1,842
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Magician during cocktail hour of brunch wedding
Christine, on May 15, 2019 at 3:08 PM

Hi there! We’re doing a lunch wedding and have a 1.5 hour cocktail hour immediately after our ceremony at 11am. We’ll serve drinks (beer & wine + three signature cocktails), and have a mix of...

Celeste, May 15, 2019 6 221 1
Kim
Best way to keep guests from taking centerpieces?
Kim, on May 11, 2019 at 6:37 AM

My centerpieces would basically be big lanterns, and they are not exactly cheap either. I plan to keep some for myself, and sell the rest. I know and have seen guests take centerpieces from weddings...

, May 14, 2019 27 2,573
Lynnie
Keep or Skip: Bouquet Toss?
Lynnie, on May 30, 2018 at 1:33 PM

This week we're playing " keep or skip " with popular wedding traditions! We want to know which traditions you are keeping, and which ones you are skipping. ✔️❌ Are you tossing the bouquet? Or are you...

Caroline, May 13, 2019 80 3,082
Jazz
How many appetizers for 75 people?
Jazz, on May 6, 2019 at 4:20 PM

Hey guys!! I'm almost a month away so I'm currently making changes that are due at my one month mark. One change being our appetizers. We originally chose a cheese tray, but they're all domestic...

Celeste, May 13, 2019 10 2,537
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