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Blending familys can be a true joy, but there are tricky elements too. From merging households, to deciding where to spend the holidays, this is the place to give and get support on all things family.

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Rehearsal dinner drama
Sarah, on June 9, 2019 at 5:28 PM

My FMIL is causing a big stink about the rehearsal dinner and has basically said she is backing out of doing anything for our wedding because of it. She loves planning parties and did a really nice...

Stephanie, Jul 4, 2019 21 2,211
Cassidy
Living After Marriage - Do We have To Live In a House?
Cassidy, on June 27, 2019 at 1:47 PM

My SO and I are still young and so are our careers. Neither of us are really ready to buy a home yet. Do you think it's necessary for us to buy and house once we're married? How do couples that still...

Stephanie, Jul 4, 2019 20 2,703 1
The Bride
The 80:20 Rule
The Bride, on June 29, 2019 at 12:53 PM

Studies show that when people marry it's because they've found someone who meets 80% of their needs. Unfortunately, when the remaining 20% is not met it can lead to infidelity. People tend to cheat to...

Stephanie, Jul 4, 2019 16 398
Alforev
Bridesmaids After Wedding
Alforev, on June 23, 2019 at 8:22 AM

I never thought after my wedding that I would need to keep coming on here for advice, but here I am! Has anyone experienced a situation where after your wedding your bridesmaids suddenly distance...

Stephanie, Jul 4, 2019 12 611
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Not sexually enough
Shaina, on May 26, 2019 at 1:20 PM

This post might be TMI for some people, but I am feeling so hopeless , down , and not enough. Ever since fh and I have started having sex it’s always been sort of like making it perfect. He was a...

Stephanie, Jul 4, 2019 24 1,779
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Family member with mental illness lashing out
Bethany, on June 30, 2019 at 3:10 PM

This could be a long post, please be kind if you feel like commenting. My older sister has borderline personality disorderand schizophrenic psychotic episodes. She attempted suicide several times when...

Stephanie, Jul 4, 2019 16 1,239
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Help! Parents throwing wedding after party that we dont want to attend.
Alexa, on July 1, 2019 at 1:32 PM

Hi Everyone! I am feeling really frustrated right now and could use some advice and support. My fiance and I are getting married in 2 months. We have planned for an earlier wedding ceremony with a...

Stephanie, Jul 4, 2019 21 1,980
Jessica
Night Before The Wedding
Jessica, on April 22, 2019 at 12:20 AM

Ok, so this is actually to discuss a tradition but that wasn't a group choice so I figured Family and Relationships might be the closest. We have our venue for the wedding weekend. They have little...

Stephanie, Jul 4, 2019 140 2,986
Jessica
Drama with Maid of Honor
Jessica , on July 2, 2019 at 2:39 PM

So let me preface this by saying.... 6 of my 7 bridesmaids are incredible and have been so helpful throughout my wedding process. But as with big groups, there is one person who has not helped out at...

Stephanie, Jul 4, 2019 28 2,634
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Do i have to invite family i don't speak to?
Samantha, on July 3, 2019 at 10:38 AM

My fiance and I created our guest list, and to be honest, my family that I am inviting on my mother's side, I don't speak to. I have no issue excluding a lot of family on my father's side simply...

Stephanie, Jul 4, 2019 12 1,469
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Completely useless bridesmaids!!!!
Dorothy, on June 30, 2019 at 9:12 PM

I have 3 bridesmaids.... and they are completely useless. My wedding is in 28 days and none of them have dresses, I paid for their shoes and jewelry. The have come to help me with decorations ONE TIME...

Bride2020, Jul 2, 2019 18 1,489
Alexis Hosley
Anyone else? - trouble with mom
Alexis Hosley, on June 25, 2019 at 12:42 PM

Who else here has a mom that is SHOVING wedding planning/ wedding projects down your throat? Constantly sending me ideas and trying to price things. I can't get a break! Just when I think I can catch...

Alyrae, Jun 25, 2019 13 374
Rebecca
How do you feel about PDA
Rebecca, on February 12, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Do you two limit the displays of affection in public? Or are you comfortable showing off your love to the world? Are you two all about the PDA or no way? Photo from Jamie Michele Makeup Artistry in...

Melle, Jun 25, 2019 46 2,134
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My mom is being a narcissist about wedding planning... help
The Sealpups, on June 21, 2019 at 2:39 PM

I am very thankful for my parents paying for the wedding. From what I've gathered, (with just the reception) my mom is paying 2/3 and is requesting the groom's parents to pay 1/3. Groom and I are...

Melle, Jun 25, 2019 7 1,428
Delaney
My sister probably isn't coming to my wedding...
Delaney, on June 21, 2019 at 8:39 PM

Hey, so a year ago my sister (19) got mad at the family and moved in with her BF and hasn't talked to anyone since. I did speak to her briefly in November 2018 to invite her to my wedding in October...

Katie, Jun 22, 2019 8 1,772
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Bridesmaid Unsupportive
Caitlin, on June 19, 2019 at 4:56 PM

Hey all, I am really hurt and confused about my relationship with one of my bridesmaids. She and I have been friends for over 13 years and ever since I started dating my FH 3 years ago, she has been...

Emma, Jun 21, 2019 7 1,177
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Any advice for getting thru wedding i don’t want to go to?
Anna, on June 20, 2019 at 12:08 PM

Any advice on surviving a wedding that you don’t really want to be at? My fiancé's sister is getting married and he’s a groomsman. The wedding is over an hour away drive from our home. I don’t have a...

Bride2020, Jun 21, 2019 13 5,194
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How to get out of a wedding after rsvp Yes??? (trigger warning)
Maddie G, on June 20, 2019 at 2:51 PM

My fiance and i are invited to my friends wedding. We have already rsvp yes. My friend and i are not very close, we see eachother when we meet in a group of other girls, but never just the two of us....

Megan, Jun 20, 2019 11 9,919
Lynne
Face time ceremony?
Lynne, on June 17, 2019 at 12:45 AM

My FMIL can't travel for health reasons. It makes us sad that she can't be with us for our special day. We are thinking of doing face time of the ceremony. Is that crazy?

Haley, Jun 20, 2019 10 1,060
Erin
mil Inviting Too Many People... Help!!
Erin, on June 17, 2019 at 2:08 PM

So we haven't sent out invites yet, but are working on guest lists. We have limited my fiance's family guests to 50 people because he has a larger family (I'm only inviting 20 of my own family) and...

Naikesha, Jun 19, 2019 17 1,156
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