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i feel like such a bad person!
Genevieve, on September 19, 2019 at 2:06 AM

Hi guys, I guess this is more of a vent then anything else. No-one actually knows that I feel this way and I am disgusted at myself for even feeling it. Firstly, I should say my wedding was supposed...

Cristy, Sep 19, 2019 8 1,167
Melissa
Cutting Off a Toxic Parent
Melissa, on September 15, 2019 at 1:23 PM

So we're getting married in 40 days! Whoo and I couldn't be more excited! We had some drama with family and friends mostly my side in the beginning but all is well. My current and final non-dramatic...

Thea, Sep 18, 2019 17 1,730
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Do you have to be friends with your husband's family?
The Sealpups, on September 13, 2019 at 5:12 PM

I was friends with my husband's cousin before we were dating. Unfortunately, I learned (the hard way) that was a very toxic friend (jealous, competitive, selfish, user, narcissistic). She piggybacked...

Judith, Sep 15, 2019 9 1,338
Kayla
Grandma Not Attending Wedding Because I’m Not Religious
Kayla, on September 8, 2019 at 6:04 PM

This is a spin on a question I’m sure has been asked too many times - but I can’t find anything with a specifically religious factor. I grew up traditional Catholic, Grandma is still Catholic. I...

Kayla, Sep 14, 2019 14 1,485
Muria
Marrying Young
Muria, on March 27, 2019 at 12:37 PM

Ok, so when the time my ceremony roams around I'm gonna be 19. people think it's crazy I'm getting married young, but I am ****% positive that this is the man I want to marry. I've known him for 3...

Cassi, Sep 10, 2019 42 1,718
Bridetobe12520
Bridesmaid guilt - any advice?
Bridetobe12520, on September 9, 2019 at 6:44 AM

Hey everyone! I’m getting married in 5 months (ahh!) and it’s all coming together just fine. Honestly, it’s been pretty stress-free - fingers crossed it stays that way. The one stressful part that I...

Jackie, Sep 10, 2019 6 333
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Half-sister and wedding party issues
Jennifer, on September 6, 2019 at 1:19 PM

I have a half sister who is five years older than me. She's my father's daughter from an ex girlfriend. My father had several legal battles with her mother for years and as a result we didn't see her...

Naikesha, Sep 7, 2019 11 1,425
Do people have alcohol for guests even if the bride doesn’t want it there
, on September 3, 2019 at 2:36 PM

I don’t want alcoholic at my wedding but fiancé want alcohol there because his friends/ family got in his ear saying we should have because other drinks and it’s for adults then. But I don’t want it...

, Sep 4, 2019 18 1,326
Lynnie
Red Flag or Deal Breaker?
Lynnie, on August 13, 2019 at 11:05 AM

It's time to get real about your relationship requirements! What bad behaviors can you deal with, and what's a big no-no for you when it comes to your S.O?? Come dish in this week's game... Red Flag...

Catherine, Sep 4, 2019 8 3,262 1
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Sick father- Will not be able to attend?
Sam, on September 1, 2019 at 10:51 AM

My wedding is 4 weeks away, My dad has just relapsed and his cancer has returned, he is already deteriorating and will be going into hospital in 4 days, he will be in isolation (no visitors). And will...

Mrs. Bubba, Sep 1, 2019 5 1,465
Jenny
Non-tacky bridesmaids gifts?
Jenny, on August 28, 2019 at 3:03 PM

I would like to do a tote bag filled with thank you goodies for my bridesmaids but I honestly do not want to waste my money with getting something with their names/initials on it. I am making them...

Millicent, Sep 1, 2019 18 1,759 1
Krista
"You don't have a say if you aren't paying"?
Krista, on August 28, 2019 at 9:19 PM

I've read a lot of people on this forum responding to discussion questions with "if she/he's paying for the wedding, you don't have a say in this/that, you can't do this/that" TBH, I don't think...

Courtney, Aug 31, 2019 35 2,205
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Broken Family
Mak, on August 29, 2019 at 12:04 AM

Long story short, my mother is toxic and I got out of it. My sister and dad still live with her. My sister will be 18 in two years and my dad is still in denial of the toxic relationship. I am having...

Mak, Aug 30, 2019 19 1,260
Delynn
Mother-in-law Wants to Invite Her Friends To The Wedding
Delynn, on August 27, 2019 at 10:51 AM

My future mother-in-law keeps asking me how many of her friends she gets to invite to the wedding. We are trying to keep the wedding small & intimate to keep costs down since we are paying for the...

Jayne, Aug 29, 2019 29 4,997
Victoria
Wedding Hijacked
Victoria, on August 28, 2019 at 8:49 AM

Does anyone else feel like their wedding has been hijacked by their family? My future in-laws are great, but I feel like they have essentially ruined my wedding plans. They destroyed my guest list and...

Jess, Aug 28, 2019 7 873
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Fiancé did hard drug
Emily, on August 23, 2019 at 3:02 PM

My fiancé went to a bachelor party and said I had nothing to worry about. When he got back I asked how it was and he said fun and he didn’t do anything with girls. fast forward a month later his mom...

Desiree, Aug 26, 2019 22 2,071
Ashley
How to tell family to back off
Ashley, on August 25, 2019 at 10:15 PM

So my grandmother is being really rude and judgmental and giving unwanted advice. First it was my venue choice, then it was my bridesmaids dresses, then my shoes, my Wedding dress! She also to me to...

Cristy, Aug 26, 2019 9 826
Kelsie
Pagan Ceremony with Christian Family
Kelsie, on January 22, 2019 at 7:24 PM

I’m pagan, I have been for about 5 years. Most of my family knows and are supportive, but a select few do not know and would not be supportive. I’ve been asked not to tell them by other family...

Kayla, Aug 26, 2019 7 743
Angelica
Friends or family in wedding party?
Angelica, on August 23, 2019 at 6:57 AM

Hi everyone- My and I were deciding our wedding party and felt we should have each of our closest friends and no family since it is hard to choose which family members etc and we also would like the...

KYLIE, Aug 23, 2019 18 1,571
Kayla
Fiancé brothers girlfriend
Kayla, on August 15, 2019 at 8:00 AM

So iv been with my fiancé for over 5 years. His brother got a girlfriend I want to say about a year in a half ago. We are not that close, we don’t text or hangout together if we do hangout it’s with...

Concetta, Aug 23, 2019 22 3,068
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