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Maria
2 dads, 1 Father/daughter dance....help!
Maria, on February 4, 2011 at 5:24 PM

I was raised by my step father.. and at 17 I met my biological father. he had no idea I even existed, so I don't fault him. He's a rigid man, and very serious, but he's helping a ton with my wedding...

Jessie, Mar 22, 2025 28 11,451
MrsBest2B
Post wedding anxiety?
MrsBest2B, on July 5, 2016 at 10:38 AM

Has anyone else experienced this, because I feel like I'm freaking out a bit... for likely no reason. The day was beautiful and multiple people have told me I looked beautiful, the food was amazing...

Zuuz, Mar 18, 2025 25 11,189
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Sister in law
Jessica, on March 15, 2025 at 11:47 PM

I am 46 and getting married this year. It is both of ours first wedding. Because I’m a little older I don’t want to have a big fancy wedding and a bridal party. I just don’t need that. My fiancé wants...

Jessica, Mar 17, 2025 3 750
Anonymous
Hosting 2 days before the wedding
Anonymous, on March 14, 2025 at 9:25 AM

My fiancé and I just bought a new house last Dec! Our wedding is in Nashville with almost all guest traveling. The wedding is Saturday and rehearsal dinner Friday for the bridal party. My mom’s...

LM, Mar 16, 2025 3 691
Justine
Colorado Elopement
Justine, on December 8, 2020 at 4:50 PM

Hello!! September wedding here we’re from Iowa but due to Covid have decided to “elope” and have an outdoor mountain top wedding. Has anyone ever planned for that? Any tips or tricks?

Austin, Mar 15, 2025 6 782 1
MrsBeetoBe
Menu cards, pre-set salad or no - poll!
MrsBeetoBe, on September 5, 2017 at 10:14 AM

I had planned to do a menu card tucked into the napkin at each place setting, but my caterer is doing a pre-set salad. Should I: A) Ask my caterer to serve the salads to guests instead of having them...

Joneka, Mar 14, 2025 36 5,894 1
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Need Support: Can’t wait to see my ring!
Emma, on March 2, 2025 at 9:09 AM

Hi all! My boyfriend just got my ring this week!!!! He and I designed it together, but I am dying to see the real thing and it’s killing me knowing it’s somewhere in our apartment. He’s not proposing...

Joneka, Mar 14, 2025 2 611 1
Simone
Remarrying the Same Person and Invitation Wording
Simone, on October 17, 2019 at 12:02 AM

So, I'm remarrying my ex-husband. It's almost time to order invites and we're needing help with wording. Everyone coming knows we are being remarried so I guess we don't have to spell it out on the...

Cynthia, Mar 13, 2025 12 3,709 3
Leighann
Adults only- On website vs invitations
Leighann, on February 24, 2021 at 7:50 AM

Hi all, I've read over and over again not to add that your wedding/reception is adults only onto the invitations. I'm wondering if anyone has actually done this and what the feedback was. I ask...

Sophie, Mar 11, 2025 26 1,420
QB
What gift to bring to a bridal shower?
QB, on January 23, 2017 at 5:27 PM

My MOH, SIL and I were having a discussion about the invitations to my bridal shower and the type of message it would send to the guest as of what kind of gift to bring. My MOH and I came to the...

Litter, Mar 8, 2025 27 61,402 2
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Can't make it to my best friend's wedding
Evelyne, on June 20, 2018 at 10:03 AM

Hello there, I'm having a hard time with this and would like advice. So my husband and I got married in April this year, and I asked my best friend to be my maid of honor. She lives in New Jersey...

Sagan, Mar 5, 2025 38 9,785
The O-fficial MrsJoseph!
Printing on A2 Envelopes!!
The O-fficial MrsJoseph!, on January 21, 2010 at 10:48 AM

Does anyone know how to print A2 envelopes? The envelope is too small for MS Word and I don't want to write these by hand nor use labels...

Jennifer, Mar 4, 2025 47 8,755 1
Reagan
Names of wedding party
Reagan, on February 17, 2025 at 1:41 PM

I have a best friend that I want to be my maid of honor and a married best friend that I would like to be my matron of honor. My sister (who I am not close with) assumes she is my maid of honor and I...

Sagan, Mar 4, 2025 2 606
Hopiate
Has anyone had a POSITIVE dry wedding experience?
Hopiate, on June 2, 2017 at 4:19 AM

After searching these forums pretty thoroughly, I'm genuinely curious - has anyone ever enjoyed themselves at a dry wedding? Most posters just talk about all the negative things about a dry wedding...

Cb, Feb 28, 2025 140 22,058 1
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Second marriage for over 50s
Debbie, on January 2, 2024 at 2:11 PM

My fiance and I got engaged in December and it will be the second marriage for us both (I'll be 50 and he'll be 53 by the time we wed). We still really want to have a beautiful, "proper" wedding to...

Teresa, Feb 26, 2025 9 6,248
Tina
Wedding Dress Code- Can You Ask Guests Not to Wear White?
Tina, on March 17, 2014 at 2:37 AM

I recently got a wedding invitation that said, "The bride requests that you do not wear white." I thought it was pretty bold because I thought it was an unspoken rule and everyone knew not to wear...

Jennifer, Feb 22, 2025 29 11,035
Kelly
Religious family, non-religious ceremony?
Kelly, on July 30, 2013 at 5:11 PM

Hi all! I'm a little nervous because FH's family (not immediate family, but extended with whom he's close) are very religious. I'm an atheist, and I come from a non-religious family. Somehow, I've...

Daniel, Feb 15, 2025 12 459
Marianne
Question for brides marrying someone of another religion
Marianne, on August 19, 2010 at 8:18 AM

Ok, so I'm Catholic - was raised that way and only recently stopped going to church. I've always pictured my wedding in a church. My fiance's family is Jehovah's Witnesses (he's not). When we started...

Samantha, Feb 15, 2025 35 154
Katie
How Much to Give for Gift?
Katie, on February 13, 2025 at 11:48 AM

I just got married this past July. We had a rehearsal dinner, pretty big wedding with band, & a luncheon for the family the day after. None of my family lives near us & my awesome mom...

Susan, Feb 13, 2025 3 781 1
Nina
What is the best approach to destination wedding invites and separate party
Nina, on February 12, 2025 at 11:37 PM

We are planning a destination wedding. We are stuck on if we invite our whole guest list and give them the option of attending at the destination location, or just sending to those we know will attend...

LM, Feb 13, 2025 1 409
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