Hi. My wedding is in June and only planning to have 40 guests, even though my fiance has a big family. His dad came up with the idea of sending out "we apologize for not being able to extend an invitation". The card will read this "we made the difficult choice to keep our wedding intimate, and unfortunately that means there are a lot of friends and family who won't be there on our wedding day. With heavy heart, we want to apologize for not being able to extend an invitation. Please know we think of you dearly. Love C&D" I was just wondering if I should send them out the same day as wedding invitations?
*EDIT: okay guys I got the deal, do not send them out. Now, how to explain my fiance? He thinks it's a really good idea. And is there anything else I can do to those who weren't invited?