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Hoiping
Just Said Yes November 2018

Not invited to bachelorette party

Hoiping, on April 17, 2024 at 5:08 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 6
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My friend is getting married in about a month and a few months ago, she mentioned that she was having a bachelorette party this month and and said her MOH will email people more info. I never got any email about this bachelorette party but per social media, I saw that the bachelorette party happened this weekend. Multiple girl friends were there, per the pictures, not just the bridal party.
Should I ask her about this? I do not recall any falling out between us. I do not know if it was an oversight or if I was purposefully not invited. I would not feel as weird if she never mentioned the bachelorette party but since she did and I was waiting for an email invite (and trying to see if I can take time off work for it), I feel somewhat awkward about it. Thank you for your input!

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Latest activity by Jacks, on April 23, 2024 at 2:58 PM
  • Cece
    Rockstar October 2023
    Cece ·
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    Since the bride is the one that brought it up to you, I would probably follow up with her on this. From the conversation you had with her, it sounds as though the bride had wanted you invited. It could have simply been an oversight, or perhaps the MOH had an incorrect email for you, or the email for some reason just wasn’t received. I would want to clear it up with the bride just in case you were supposed to be invited and never received the invitation – I wouldn’t want the bride thinking you simply ghosted.
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  • Jacks
    Rockstar November 2054
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    Agreed, I would bring it up with the bride. Perhaps you got overlooked by the person hosting the event by mistake. I wouldn't want her thinking you just didn't go.

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    It sounds like an oversight to me. Either that or the bride was originally hoping you could be invited but spoke out of turn because her party planned something smaller. I would bring it up to her if for no other reason than there's always the chance something was lost in the mail or overlooked.

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  • Hoiping
    Just Said Yes November 2018
    Hoiping ·
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    Thanks, everyone! I did text my friend and she said she wished she could have invited more people but the venue was too small. Honestly I feel somewhat hurt that I did not make the cut but at least she knows I was not ghosting her..
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    You probably saved the date or possible dates for weeks and she never had the courtesy to tell you the plans had changed. That would be far more annoying to me than not making the cut.

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  • Jacks
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    I can understand why you're hurt. That was rude of her.

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