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Jess08
Feeling left out since most friends are single
Jess08, on June 2, 2013 at 11:12 PM

Anyone else feel like your friends are no longer interested in hanging out as much since you got engaged? Most of my friends are single, and they seem to be less excited as they used to about hanging...

Amanda, Jun 3, 2013 11 1,207
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Polite way to add in invites, registering for money for honeymoon/ w small gift registry.
Rachel, on June 1, 2013 at 10:23 PM

I know a lot of people don't think it's polite to ask for money for a gift. But times have changed and I know all of our family and friends don't care at all. So my question is; what a nice way of...

Alycia, Jun 2, 2013 13 2,675
Private User
No smoking please!!
Private User, on May 31, 2013 at 10:33 AM

My ceremony is at a gazebo on a christian campground. The whole campground is nonsmoking and the gazebo is located about half a mile from the main road (where smoking is permitted). There are several...

Miranda, May 31, 2013 11 1,878
Nancy
seating of grandmothers question
Nancy, on May 31, 2013 at 12:52 PM

I have a short question, but who normally seats the grandmothers during the ceremony, along with the seating of the mothers? I've had it where the groomsmen seat the grandmothers and along with the...

Nancy, May 31, 2013 3 193
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Alcohol at the Bridal Shower?
Mallory, on May 30, 2013 at 3:40 PM

Hey ladies just a quick question, My step-mom and sister(MOH) are hosting my bridal shower and weren't planning on having any alcohol as they thought that was the norm. Just wondering if it’s tacky to...

Forever (a) Young, May 31, 2013 50 4,550
kahlcara
inviting some people who are roommates, do we send 1 invite or 2?
kahlcara, on May 30, 2013 at 9:12 PM

FH and I have 2 friends who are renting an apartment together (as roommates, not romantic), do we send them one invite addressed to George Smith and Tom Jones or do we send Tom Jones one and George...

Almost Mrs. Wifey//(, May 30, 2013 3 536
Katie
broke as a joke and thinking of becoming a stripper
Katie, on May 29, 2013 at 10:56 PM

Lol, no not really, the stripper part at least. Im soo soo freakin broke tho its killing me. Sometimes I wish I was okay with stripping lol. I just need the money so bad! Seriously looking around for...

Katie, May 30, 2013 34 139
Melinda
Bridal Shower "Open House" question
Melinda, on May 30, 2013 at 2:46 PM

Has anyone been to, had or have been thrown an open house style shower? I heard this g idea a few years ago and LOVE it. If you are not familiar, the shower guests arrive between a set amount of time....

Out the Window, May 30, 2013 4 251
2015Bride
Would 40ish minutes driving distance between ceremony and reception bother you?
2015Bride, on May 24, 2013 at 11:46 PM

Hi everyone Just wanted to get some honest opinions and advice. My partner and I are in the very very early stages of planning a wedding (currently gathering ideas) and we have a reception site that...

Sarah, May 29, 2013 33 333
alexandria
Cake cutting before dinner?
alexandria, on May 29, 2013 at 12:20 PM

I just saw some of you doing this.. I've never heard of this! Can someone walk me thru this pros and cons?

Kenneth Bouchard, May 29, 2013 13 3,545
Laudie
Went to a wedding this weekend...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS!
Laudie, on May 28, 2013 at 1:58 PM

On the invitation it said 3pm...get there around 2:30-2:45 to make sure we are not late. The church wasn't even open and a bunch of us were standing outside just waiting for them to unlock the doors!...

Tiffany M. ( Tiffany, May 29, 2013 44 4,749
Amanda
Unplugged ceremony: help needed on wording for programs
Amanda, on May 29, 2013 at 8:38 AM

FH and I have decided we would prefer to have an unplugged ceremony, for all of the typical reasons (hired competent professionals, don't want iPads in my face as I'm walking down the aisle, etc.). I...

Buffee, May 29, 2013 8 365
Kristin
Ceremony song???
Kristin, on May 26, 2013 at 7:48 PM

Hi everyone, I was asked by my wedding planner to pick 4 songs for our musician to play: The bridal party entrance song, brides entrance song, ceremony song, and recessional song. I understand what...

Kim, May 28, 2013 10 158
Chelsea
How much are you/did you pay for your wedding cake?
Chelsea, on December 10, 2012 at 1:34 PM

I'm curious how much you are paying/paid for your wedding cake(s)? I just put a deposit down on our wedding cakes. We have a guest list of 250. We're going to have 5 different wedding cakes. The total...

LG, May 28, 2013 32 756
Mrs. Grissett-Johnson
Wedding w/ informal reception: Will guests think we're being cheap?
Mrs. Grissett-Johnson, on May 27, 2013 at 3:50 PM

Ok, the last time I posted I was happy to announce that FH and I would be eloping in Jamaica this fall. While that is still true we are still somehow stuck planning a wedding and reception, Lol....

RachelT, May 28, 2013 18 626
Laudie
How much did you pay for your cake topper?
Laudie, on May 17, 2013 at 5:51 PM

I know it can vary but I'm curious to see what the average is.

Laudie, May 28, 2013 48 1,802
Future Mrs.
Stamps on RSVP envelope
Future Mrs., on May 28, 2013 at 12:08 AM

Do I HAVE to put stamps on the RSVP envelopes? I'm giving the online RSVP option as well...which unfortunately, I'm sure most of the older crowd won't use. :-) I think I already know the answer to...

Stacey, May 28, 2013 14 3,058
FutureMrsKruse
Welcome Bags - Optional or a Must-do?
FutureMrsKruse, on May 27, 2013 at 1:08 AM

Is it absolutely necessary to make welcome bags for OOT guests?

MinD, May 27, 2013 22 6,357
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Fiance' Disrespected My Parents... HELP!
Andrea, on May 27, 2013 at 1:29 AM

My fiance' and I had a large fight a couple days ago and it has turned into a large mess that has not only include each other but now my parents. Short background info, we have been together since...

Andre'ya, May 27, 2013 26 2,681
All Smiles
Is a bridal shower necessary??
All Smiles, on January 29, 2013 at 9:00 PM

My FH and I have been living together for some years now and I have been stocking up on items throughout the years to save for our 1st home. Now I get the idea of a bridal shower but I honestly do not...

Chrissy, May 26, 2013 14 2,584
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