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Guest books...are they. Necessary at showers?
JaLynn, on June 18, 2015 at 6:47 AM

Are bridal shower guest books and wedding guest books the same thing? The hostess for our shower in my FH's hometown has reminded me to bring the guestbook!! I'm clueless! Do I need a different book...

Sparkles, Jun 18, 2015 5 4,093
OG FMP
Who else is using the traditional Wedding March song?
OG FMP, on March 4, 2015 at 12:28 PM

I'm a little old fashioned and the sound of the Wedding March by Felix Mendelssohn is so beautiful and bridal. Thinking of using this song BUT when I hear it reminds me of a church and we're not...

Nardin, Jun 17, 2015 21 3,864
Jai
Uninvited People Offering Gifts??
Jai, on June 17, 2015 at 10:48 AM

Has anyone else experienced people that you know, but aren't invited to your wedding and know they're not invited offering to buy something or give cash? I've had a few people say or FB message me:...

Private User, Jun 17, 2015 26 6,306
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florist question/ centerpieces
taira, on June 16, 2015 at 3:19 PM

My florist asked if I would be ok asking the guests not to take the centerpieces.. is that rude to not allow them to take them? or is it not really a big thing to be able to take the center pieces...

sdgher, Jun 17, 2015 17 1,855
AlexisM082
Mud wrestling at a wedding.... I can't believe I know these people...
AlexisM082, on June 15, 2015 at 9:35 PM

So I have an old... friendish person on FB who was engaged 4 months ago to the guy who's been chasing her for years. Anyway, bride was married to "Tom" for 5 years and kept giving "Bob" the cold...

AlexisM082, Jun 16, 2015 46 2,252
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Unplugged VS Plugged in VS Stand-By wedding.
Shairys, on June 15, 2015 at 4:38 PM

So my fiance and I are considering doing an unplugged ceremony ( no restrictions on reception). We've read all the stories of guests ruining the photographers pictures with their flash or by getting...

CMH to CML, Jun 16, 2015 29 93
Sassy Cincy Bride
Funny RSVP Response
Sassy Cincy Bride, on June 16, 2015 at 9:41 AM

Soo... Apparently someone doesn't know how to complete an RSVP Card

KatieandRyan, Jun 16, 2015 31 182
Elise
Thank you note RANT
Elise, on June 16, 2015 at 1:13 AM

So my FH just told me that his sister hasn't sent out thank you notes for her bridal shower over a year ago (she was married last September)! I thought that's so rude, her shower was out of state and...

Tanya&Chris, Jun 16, 2015 35 1,929
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Same Venue as Sister-in-Law
Tertle0903, on June 15, 2015 at 4:48 AM

OK so here is the dilemma. I recently started looking and planning for my wedding that is taking place next September (2016) and I found this gorgeous venue. When I saw it I actually teared up so I...

Mrs. P, Jun 15, 2015 36 2,314
Andrea
Maid of Honor Withdrawal
Andrea, on June 15, 2015 at 4:04 PM

I knew that my niece would be my maid of honor before I even met my FH. So when I got engaged in March she was the first person I called. About 4 years ago she lost her husband of 4 1/2 years. She...

HeavenlyBride, Jun 15, 2015 19 85
Kathryn
Bridal Shower When Already Married
Kathryn, on June 15, 2015 at 1:40 PM

As most of you may remember. DH and I got married in May due to my dad being ill. He passed away Tuesday. Our wedding wasn't supposed to be until 9/12/15 but we had our wedding early so he was able to...

Bethyonce, Jun 15, 2015 17 359
chasity
7 Reasons to See the Bride Before The Ceremony
chasity, on June 13, 2015 at 2:06 PM

For all those out there that have been debating the First Look thing. I came across this today and thought I would share it with you all. It may help with your decisions making...

chasity, Jun 14, 2015 35 257
FutureRice0821
I'm in wedding alcohol calculation hell...
FutureRice0821, on June 12, 2015 at 4:27 PM

I've searched the boards and I've googled some calculators, but I'm really struggling to come up with a realistic number for the amount of alcohol we need at our wedding. There is quite a bit of...

FutureRice0821, Jun 13, 2015 19 79
OriginalRandi
Feeling insecure about my lingerie shower...
OriginalRandi, on June 10, 2015 at 4:44 PM

Ok so on the positive side, I just found out I'm getting a lingerie shower - yay! I'm SO thankful and have always thought a lingerie shower would be so fun. But suddenly, now that I know I actually am...

OriginalRandi, Jun 11, 2015 44 2,312
Tammy
For those brides not changing their last name...
Tammy, on June 10, 2015 at 4:02 PM

How will you/How did you have your wedding officiant announce you at the end of the wedding? This is only crossing my mind as we went to a wedding a few weeks ago and after the ceremony the Pastor...

OMW, Jun 10, 2015 18 17,374
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Want to "Uninvite" after sending Save the Date
Chely, on June 9, 2015 at 5:05 PM

My father (deceased) had children from a previous marriage. His ex cheated with several men, he left, she told her kids lies about my mom when he remarried. I recently reconnected with my half sister...

Janeen, Jun 10, 2015 22 224
Princess Consuela
Who does the readings? (Church ceremony question)
Princess Consuela, on June 10, 2015 at 12:11 PM

Who is doing the readings at your ceremony? I don't know if we should pick someone who is religious, or if we should pick people that we still want to honor in some way, even if they're not...

MrsA, Jun 10, 2015 15 3,185
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Bridal Tea Etiquette
Sarah, on June 9, 2015 at 4:24 PM

Couple of questions involving bridal teas. 1) Does the bride pick out the invitation that is being sent out? 2) Does the bride pay for the invitation and send them out herself? 3) Since my bridal tea...

VWCat, Jun 9, 2015 3 147
futuremrslavender
For the ceremony do you wear your engagement ring...
futuremrslavender, on June 9, 2015 at 9:41 AM

A.) put your wedding ring on top?? -OR- b.) don't wear your engagement ring for the ceremony so the wedding ring goes on first? Then slip it on top after?

Sasha, Jun 9, 2015 40 1,952
SarahMarie
Unbalanced wedding party
SarahMarie, on June 8, 2015 at 9:12 AM

We are beginning to think our wedding party might be 5 girls & 6 guys. I don't have many close girlfriends and I'm not going to ask someone that I'm not close with just for the sake having an even...

JMthirteen, Jun 8, 2015 22 1,967
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