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Stephanie
Not doing wedding favors... Rude or preference?
Stephanie, on May 30, 2016 at 9:14 PM

So, me & the FH are cutting corners & trying to do as simple as possible, yet still make it beautiful. We feel the marriage requires more attention than the wedding. So, we've talked about cutting out...

Neisy, May 31, 2016 39 111
kav1994
How to get over feeling ugly in my dress?
kav1994, on May 31, 2016 at 5:04 PM

I just went in for a dress fitting today, and I honestly wanted to cry because I felt so ugly. The dress is beautiful, I just felt fat and very ugly, and not pretty. How do you get over those...

FFW, May 31, 2016 33 4,173
Mrs. Sasswood
Wedding favors- Yeti or Tervis?
Mrs. Sasswood, on May 31, 2016 at 1:28 PM

What should I give my super-blessed to attend my wedding guests as favors? I'm hearing a lot about these Yetis but Tervis has a good rep too. Help!

Katie, May 31, 2016 24 918
FutureMrsMaidenName
Engagement Party Thank You Gifts
FutureMrsMaidenName, on May 31, 2016 at 9:03 AM

My dad, step-mom, and mom are hosting an engagement party for FH and I this Saturday and I am trying to think of thank-you gifts for them. My dad and step-mom are flying in from CA where they live to...

Crescent 1894, May 31, 2016 4 959
Elaine778
Plus one on envelope or RSVP card?
Elaine778, on May 30, 2016 at 10:35 PM

Do I need to address my envelopes to "Ms. Jane Smith Guest" if the RSVP card says "We have reserved 2 seats in your honor"? The RSVP card also has a space for the guest to write in the number of...

Jennifer, May 31, 2016 6 1,976
mlw
Anyone else have a cat that tries to "eat" your engagement ring??
mlw, on May 29, 2016 at 11:47 AM

I don't know what is up with him lately, but he is constantly trying to naw on it. I'm not sure whether I should chuckle or worry he might actually loosen it.... :\

ChocolatierKT, May 30, 2016 32 4,504
S
Water bottles
Sammie, on May 29, 2016 at 3:57 PM

It's supposed to be a very hot day the day of our wedding. We're wanting to have barrels of water bottles all over our venue. What would be the best way to do this, and to also let our guests know...

OMW, May 29, 2016 20 1,224
Married52113
No thank you notes?
Married52113, on December 7, 2012 at 6:22 PM

I have a male cousin who was recently married. I was invited to the shower (an hour away) where I brought a nice gift. I then went to the wedding and brought with me another gift. At a recent family...

Laura, May 29, 2016 20 1,403
Shanelle
Sheet cakes for a large wedding.
Shanelle, on May 27, 2016 at 9:21 AM

Has anyone used several sheet cakes for a large reception? If so how did it go and how many did you need? We're looking at about 250 people.

Zoe, May 28, 2016 9 4,374
Hollie S.
This is a sensitive subject for me...
Hollie S., on May 27, 2016 at 7:08 AM

This goes out to the brides who's father's have passed on... what are you guys doing to keep the memory of your father at the wedding... also what are you guys doing about the "father daughter...

Hollie S., May 28, 2016 29 375
SchooleyWeds2018
Inviting for the sake of inviting
SchooleyWeds2018, on May 27, 2016 at 8:27 AM

I have barely started the formal planning process but I was talking through a couple of ideas with my mom last night. I told her I wanted a very small guest list so I was only inviting immediate...

Zoe, May 27, 2016 25 127
A
Paper/plastic plates or glass????
Alicia, on May 26, 2016 at 3:25 AM

So we are having a backyard wedding reception with about 50 of our closest family and friends! The food is gonna be buffet style kind of barbecue catered! My question is plates! My mother has glass...

Christina, May 27, 2016 11 225
Natalie
What does DH and DW mean?
Natalie, on May 27, 2016 at 2:44 PM

For the life of me I have no idea what they mean.

Amanda, May 27, 2016 22 212
mlw
Has anyone bought from Belk.com? *UPDATE* IT CAME!!!! Pic in Comments
mlw, on May 26, 2016 at 11:34 PM

I managed to hunt down a purse I have been eyeballing since last year! It was literally the last place online that still had them. And even better it was ON SALE!! I had wanted to use it on my wedding...

mlw, May 27, 2016 12 16,474
Melanie
Super Awkward Send Off Plan
Melanie, on May 27, 2016 at 12:14 PM

My DOC and mom have this plan to make our wedding guests wait in a front room at the church after our ceremony while the wedding party are taking photos for 30 min then give us a send off with the...

Future Mrs. R Perez, May 27, 2016 18 121
J
Same photographer for engagement and wedding?
Jaynae', on May 26, 2016 at 7:17 AM

Should my wedding photographer also do the engagement photos? I'm thinking of saving a little money by going with two different photographers, but not sure how that would work out. Any advice?

Kathleen Smith, May 26, 2016 41 2,663
Katie
Ask your guests what they want to drink?
Katie, on May 26, 2016 at 5:06 PM

I've seen RSVP cards where people ask what their song their guests want to hear, etc. I was wondering if anyone had ever asked what type of drinks people want? All the guides I read online say to...

MangoSong, May 26, 2016 21 6,145 1
Amanda
What should our Groomswomen carry?
Amanda, on May 26, 2016 at 1:30 PM

I am having 4 bridesmaids on my side, and my FH has decided to have a Best Man, Groomsman, and 2 Groomswomen! I love the idea and we have already chosen formal gowns. All the ladies will be in the...

Rachel DellaPorte, May 26, 2016 20 2,320
LauraM
How far out do you book your officiant?
LauraM, on May 25, 2016 at 7:00 PM

I'm sure this has been asked before, but I'm on mobile so I can't search. How far in advance do you book your officiant? It's something I haven't thought about yet! Neither I nor FH are very religious...

Mrs.T_618, May 26, 2016 29 129
Tara
Can I request my guests do not wear black?
Tara, on March 25, 2013 at 11:47 AM

I am having mostly a black and white wedding- wear my bridesmaids will be wearing balck dresses... Is it inappropirate to request your guests not wear black OR should guess be dressing as a black tie...

SingingDanielle, May 26, 2016 26 3,866
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