Walking down the aisle with 2 dads???

Is there a reason you couldn't have combined both these questions into one post?

Well I think this is really up to your daughter.

They can both, or one or the other, or neither.

I am not being given away - but I am letting my dad escort me down the aisle

She can do whatever she feels comfortable with. Don't get too involved.

I had my Dad and stepfather both walk me down. It's really up to the bride. My Dad said "I do" (to giving me away) and my stepdad said "her mother and I do too".

But again, it's up to the bride and what she wants.

The problem is, she doesn't know what she wants. She really wants them both to walk her down but doesn't want the drama.

The good news is that she has a ton of time to figure out what she'd like to do. Let her know that there's no rush to decide this right now because her wedding date is two years away.

What you described sounds good. I think having her walk the whole way down with bio dad on one arm and adoptive dad on the other sounds good, too. It's really all about what she decides is best for her. Hopefully both dads will go along with her wishes.

They should both walk her...one on each side

It's her decision. She may take a while to decide (I know I am!), but at the end of the day she gets to choose whether to have both escort her, one or the other, you, someone else, her FH, herself, or a combination.

There shouldn't be any drama because everyone involved is an adult. They should put aside their differences and both walk her. At the same time, if either of them decide not to do it she needs to be able to accept that and move on.

I've seen it done where either the stepfather or adoptive father walks his daughter about mid way through and the biological father finishes and gives her away. But she can do whatever she chooses