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Brothers wife to be a bridesmaid?
Emily, on February 26, 2017 at 8:15 PM

My fiance and I want a small wedding party. I want to have my 2 sisters and his 2 sisters be my bridesmaids, and he'll have my brother, his brother, and 2 friends be his groomsmen. My brothers wife...

Kristina, Feb 26, 2017 16 1,713
FutureMrsAF
Elopement vs immediate family
FutureMrsAF, on February 26, 2017 at 7:44 PM

Been thinking about slashing our already small (50 guests) guest list to 15 or so. Mom is furious about this as it would mean a lot of extended family (grandparents, aunts, uncles) would not be...

JoRocka, Feb 26, 2017 8 1,851
Cam
Veil or No?
Cam , on February 26, 2017 at 4:56 PM

I'm torn on veils now, and whether to wear one or not. This is my third wedding, with the first ending in divorce after a year, and the second in his death just a few years ago. I'm obviously an older...

Rayla, Feb 26, 2017 16 266
Sara
June Brides Bridal Shower
Sara, on February 24, 2017 at 8:44 AM

When should I send Bridal Shower invites? We're planning to send wedding invites the end of next week.I was thinking about having MOH send them out the middle of March since the bridal shower is Apirl...

Nadia, Feb 26, 2017 9 141
ViciousHamster
Nobody can agree on a bridesmaid dress
ViciousHamster, on February 26, 2017 at 6:03 PM

Since none of my bridesmaids could agree on a dress, I was able to find two dresses everyone agreed on and had them pick either one because they were the same color. I was ok with mismatched dresses,...

Sunshine, Feb 26, 2017 23 2,489
Becky and Brendan
how many speeches is too many?
Becky and Brendan, on February 26, 2017 at 2:58 PM

I am having an issue with speeches/toasts- I know the maid of honor and best man speak, and then i guess father of the bride and mom speak. My brother really wants to speak so now that makes 4...

NowASeptMrs, Feb 26, 2017 18 3,777
Linds
Asking about bringing babies
Linds, on February 26, 2017 at 7:51 AM

FH's group of friends has three couples who had babies within the last 3-6 months. I know at least 2 of them are nursing, and I'm not sure about the third. Im not really friends with these couples -...

Linds, Feb 26, 2017 13 1,467
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Need a new engagement ring..? Help!
Julianna, on February 24, 2017 at 8:35 PM

So I love my engagement ring, totally fits me (below is a pic). BUT since the gold is mixed with copper (14k gold) it turns my finger blackish. I know the ring is real because we've had several people...

TRJessie, Feb 26, 2017 17 111
Jess A
Is there a protocol for step parents?
Jess A, on February 21, 2017 at 11:41 AM

My FH's parents are divorced and have been for 20 years. His dad is remarried and mom has been with her boyfriend for 12 years. My FH is closer to his moms boyfriend than his stepmom. Do we give gifts...

Danielle, Feb 26, 2017 8 598
GreektoIrish2017
Seating arrangement at reception
GreektoIrish2017, on February 24, 2017 at 5:07 PM

I have a random question. Just wondering about the seating chart. Do I seat FH's family and friends on one side of the room and mine on the other or should I mix them up? I could put eight of my...

GreektoIrish2017, Feb 25, 2017 12 860
Judi
return address on RSVP
Judi, on February 25, 2017 at 3:22 PM

Hello Everyone - prepping our RSVP cards to send out next month - Do I leave the return address blank so people can write in their own? Do I write my address for both mailing and return? (I've seen...

Melody, Feb 25, 2017 4 1,201
IronMaiden
Dance With Dad
IronMaiden, on February 24, 2017 at 7:04 PM

My dad and I are close but I am NOT a Daddy's girl. He and I have our issues but we work together, and spend a lot of time together. He is not emotional or sensitive and I am hyper of both. He's said...

Sassystephig1, Feb 25, 2017 29 190
Melissa
Military Base Reception
Melissa, on February 24, 2017 at 12:31 PM

We are having our wedding ceremony at a local winery and the reception is at a Military Base close by. The venue is gorgeous and with FH being active duty we received some great discounts on the...

FutureFuji, Feb 25, 2017 10 490
Caitlin
Plasticware - Okay for reception??
Caitlin, on January 2, 2017 at 3:16 PM

I was wondering if anyone used nice plastic ware (plates, cutlery, cups, etc) for their reception and is this "too cheap" looking for your guests? We are trying to stay on a budget. It would be very...

Amanda, Feb 24, 2017 18 756
Carissa Brittney
Invitations for no plus ones?
Carissa Brittney, on February 24, 2017 at 9:47 PM

I professionally addressed all of envelopes for our invitations. On the invites, I included the names of the people we were inviting (for example, Joseph Fl****). We are not inviting plus ones as this...

Jillian, Feb 24, 2017 3 793
Beryl
He pushed the date back…feeling so bummed :(
Beryl, on February 23, 2017 at 9:11 AM

When we got engaged, our original date was 11/18/18. We wanted to save money for the wedding, so a two year engagement made sense. But, because of my dad, I was able to get a majority of the money for...

Nancy, Feb 24, 2017 60 1,648
Natalie
Wedding Albums
Natalie, on February 24, 2017 at 6:09 PM

I know this has been mentioned time and time again, but can anyone recommend where they bought their wedding album? I will be doing a casual Shutterfly wedding album, but I would also like that...

PBiazinha, Feb 24, 2017 7 95
Jassel
Bridal Expo..What to Expect?
Jassel, on February 23, 2017 at 9:13 PM

Hi everyone! So this Saturday my FH and I are going to our first bridal expo to see/view a potential DJ for our wedding. What should we expect? Any tips or advice? Thanks!

spring 2017, Feb 24, 2017 20 754
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My sister backed out of my wedding!
Heather , on February 23, 2017 at 7:17 PM

Okay ladies the other day my sister texted me telling me to not buy my niece a flower girl dress I responded with why!??? She then later texted me back saying because once she moves out of my moms...

Elizabeth, Feb 24, 2017 22 2,323
Cam
Head table vs. Sweetheart tables?
Cam , on February 23, 2017 at 5:15 PM

I'm torn, so just soliciting opinions before I get much farther. I have time yet, but FH and I are trying the consider the benefits of both a couple of head tables (at which our entire party will not...

Sagan, Feb 24, 2017 52 601
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